Far From the Tree

出版者:Scribner

作者:Andrew Solomon

页数:976

出版时间:2012-11-13

价格:USD 37.50

装帧:Hardcover

isbn号码:9780743236713

具体描述

From the National Book Award-winning author of the “brave…deeply humane…open-minded, critically informed, and poetic” ( The New York Times ) The Noonday Demon , comes a book about the consequences of extreme personal and cultural difference between parents and children. As a gay child of straight parents, Andrew Solomon was born with a condition that was considered an illness, but it became a cornerstone of his identity. While reporting on the explosion of Deaf pride in the 1990s, he began to consider illness and identity as a continuum with shifting boundaries. Spurred by the disability-rights movement and empowered by the Internet, communities with such “horizontal identities” are challenging expectations and norms. Their stories begin in families coping with extreme difference: dwarfism, Down syndrome, autism, multiple severe disabilities, or prodigious genius; children conceived in rape, or who identify as transgender; children who develop schizophrenia or commit serious crimes. The adage asserts that the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, but in Solomon’s explorations, some apples fall on the other side of the world. For ten years, interviewing more than 250 families, Solomon has observed not just how some families learn to deal with exceptional children, but also how they find profound meaning in doing so. An utterly original thinker, Solomon mines the eloquence of ordinary people who have somehow summoned hope and courage in the face of heartbreaking prejudice and almost unimaginable difficulty. Far from the Tree is a masterpiece that will rattle our prejudices, question our policies, and inspire our understanding of the relationship between illness and identity. Above all, it will renew and deepen our gratitude for the herculean reach of parental love.

作者简介

Andrew Solomon writes about politics, culture, and health. He lives in New York and London. He has written for many publications--such as the New York Times, The New Yorker and Artforum--on topics including depression, Soviet artists, the cultural rebirth of Afghanistan, Libyan politics, and deaf culture. He is also a Contributing Writer for Travel and Leisure. In 2008, he was awarded the Humanitarian Award of the Society of Biological Psychiatry for his contributions to the field of mental health. He has a staff appointment as a Lecturer in Psychiatry at Cornell Medical School (Weill-Cornell Medical College).

读后感

如果你十几岁的孩子是个侏儒，而他/她却非常渴望开始约会，身为母亲，你的感觉会是怎样的呢？如果你被强奸后怀上你的女儿，虽然你很爱她，但却不能忍受她碰你，你又该怎么办呢？如果你的儿子非常快乐，但却完全失聪，他已经忘记了听见声音的感觉是怎样的了，回忆起你们一起演奏...  

如果你十几岁的孩子是个侏儒，而他/她却非常渴望开始约会，身为母亲，你的感觉会是怎样的呢？如果你被强奸后怀上你的女儿，虽然你很爱她，但却不能忍受她碰你，你又该怎么办呢？如果你的儿子非常快乐，但却完全失聪，他已经忘记了听见声音的感觉是怎样的了，回忆起你们一起演奏...  

如果你十几岁的孩子是个侏儒，而他/她却非常渴望开始约会，身为母亲，你的感觉会是怎样的呢？如果你被强奸后怀上你的女儿，虽然你很爱她，但却不能忍受她碰你，你又该怎么办呢？如果你的儿子非常快乐，但却完全失聪，他已经忘记了听见声音的感觉是怎样的了，回忆起你们一起演奏...  

感觉Far From the Tree这书有挺严重的选择偏倚和回忆偏倚，更能接受子女残障的家庭才会更愿意接受作者的访谈，而这样的家庭回忆当年时难免对自己已经选择的道路更加坚定。  

感觉Far From the Tree这书有挺严重的选择偏倚和回忆偏倚，更能接受子女残障的家庭才会更愿意接受作者的访谈，而这样的家庭回忆当年时难免对自己已经选择的道路更加坚定。