After decades of preying on women as a pimp and a hustler, larger-than-life celebrity bodyguard Big Boom was an expert in the games men play. But after meeting his wife, he turned in his player card and committed his life to teaching women how they can guard their hearts against the type of man he used to be. In this sure to be controversial guide, Boom gives it to women straight, exploring the good, bad, and ugly sides of relationships and revealing the real motivations of men. His eye-opening perspective on sex and love is exactly what women crave. Full of down-home jewels, such as 'You say he makes your heart skip a beat, but it might just be your brain telling you to run', Boom urges women to tune into their instincts and emphasizes the need for communication, confidence and honesty. He warns women that sex cannot build a relationship, or fix it - but rather trust and friendship are key to making dating work. In the bestselling tradition of HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU, this unique guide will be essential for any woman trying to find Mr. Right but ending up with Mr. Never-Gonna-Happen, Mr. Infidelity, and a lengthy list of Mr. Wrongs.