Moira Weigel was born in Brooklyn. Her writing has appeared in The Guardian, The Nation, The New Republic, n+1, and The New Inquiry, among other publications, and she is currently completing a PhD in Comparative Literature at Yale University. After years of first-person research on dating, she is off the market. Labor of Love is her first book.
发表于2024-12-23
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路上读书解读: 工业革命时期及以前: 在19世纪晚期以前,像我们现在这种自由恋爱的情况基本不多,而是父母之命、媒妁之言。不信你想想伊丽莎白和达西。 可是到了19世纪80年代,工业的蓬勃发展导致劳动力需求增加,大把大把的地方需要工人。于是,很多年轻姑娘都顺着这股风潮进...
评分路上读书解读: 工业革命时期及以前: 在19世纪晚期以前,像我们现在这种自由恋爱的情况基本不多,而是父母之命、媒妁之言。不信你想想伊丽莎白和达西。 可是到了19世纪80年代,工业的蓬勃发展导致劳动力需求增加,大把大把的地方需要工人。于是,很多年轻姑娘都顺着这股风潮进...
评分路上读书解读: 工业革命时期及以前: 在19世纪晚期以前,像我们现在这种自由恋爱的情况基本不多,而是父母之命、媒妁之言。不信你想想伊丽莎白和达西。 可是到了19世纪80年代,工业的蓬勃发展导致劳动力需求增加,大把大把的地方需要工人。于是,很多年轻姑娘都顺着这股风潮进...
评分路上读书解读: 工业革命时期及以前: 在19世纪晚期以前,像我们现在这种自由恋爱的情况基本不多,而是父母之命、媒妁之言。不信你想想伊丽莎白和达西。 可是到了19世纪80年代,工业的蓬勃发展导致劳动力需求增加,大把大把的地方需要工人。于是,很多年轻姑娘都顺着这股风潮进...
评分路上读书解读: 工业革命时期及以前: 在19世纪晚期以前,像我们现在这种自由恋爱的情况基本不多,而是父母之命、媒妁之言。不信你想想伊丽莎白和达西。 可是到了19世纪80年代,工业的蓬勃发展导致劳动力需求增加,大把大把的地方需要工人。于是,很多年轻姑娘都顺着这股风潮进...
图书标签: 社会学 爱情 英文原版 美国 non-fiction 约会 2016 文化
“Does anyone date anymore?” Today, the authorities tell us that courtship is in crisis. But when Moira Weigel dives into the history of sex and romance in modern America, she discovers that authorities have always said this. Ever since young men and women started to go out together, older generations have scolded them: That’s not the way to find true love. The first women who made dates with strangers were often arrested for prostitution; long before “hookup culture,” there were “petting parties”; before parents worried about cell phone apps, they fretted about joyrides and “parking.” Dating is always dying. But this does not mean that love is dead. It simply changes with the economy. Dating is, and always has been, tied to work.
Lines like “I’ll pick you up at six” made sense at a time when people had jobs that started and ended at fixed hours. But in an age of contract work and flextime, many of us have become sexual freelancers, more likely to text a partner “u still up?” Weaving together over one hundred years of history with scenes from the contemporary landscape, Labor of Love offers a fresh feminist perspective on how we came to date the ways we do. This isn't a guide to “getting the guy.” There are no ridiculous “rules” to follow. Instead, Weigel helps us understand how looking for love shapes who we are―and hopefully leads us closer to the happy ending that dating promises.
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评分路上读书解读: 从二战后的进城务工潮说起,介绍了各个时期不同约会风潮形成的原因和带来的影响。不论是工人阶层、资产阶层各自的约会方式,还是黑人群体、同性恋群体的约会难题,又或者性解放、艾滋病带来的后果,约会都是当时经济、社会和文化的缩影。
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