SUSAN QUILLIAM has worked as a relationship psychologist, coach and agony aunt for over thirty years. She is the author of twenty-one books, including Joy of Sex (updated for the twenty-first century) and is a regular media expert on the subject of sex and relationships.
发表于2024-11-05
How to Choose a Partner 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书
图书标签: 生活 婚恋 英文 Marriage 英 Ж Life 2017
We don’t have all the answers―but we can help you choose a partner.
Choosing a romantic partner is one of contemporary life’s biggest adventures. But other aspects of modern living―being globally more mobile, a fall in religious belief, social liberalization, and more job opportunities (but longer working hours)―mean relationships have rarely been so challenging, and so important.
In How to Choose a Partner, Susan Quilliam guides us through the process of finding the right partner for us as individuals. The real challenge is that we grow. Drawing upon rich cultural material, psychology, and her background in relationship therapy, Susan presents partner choice as a journey toward self-development, driving us to learn more about ourselves, about other people, and about life and the way we want to live.
非常理性,有哲思。选择别人的同时也是在反观自己。 the litmus test will always be the "close enough to smell" connection. if they do not inspire us to respond, they're the wrong choices. sex is one of the arenas where a person is most themselves, and reveals that self most early and openly in a relationship. a relationship is a "people-growing process". simply be urself.
评分我以为是教你如何找商业合伙人的,原来是教你如何找对象,但有些观点挺不错的,只是觉得很多内容还讲得不够深刻到点。
评分总结一下: 1. 给自己3个月的时间了解对方,3个月觉得不错就确定关系,还有犹豫就果断放弃。 2. 了解对方什么呢?价值观、生活目标和个性,书里特别指出,价值观和目标最好相似,相比之下个性没有那么重要。除此,对方是否可以进行感情回应,并认为这一点特别重要。ta是否能及时感知你的想法,善于平复和宽慰你。3. 如果总是急着进入一段关系,可以尝试慢下来;相反,如果总是拖着,可以尝试勇敢一点主动些。
评分非常理性,有哲思。选择别人的同时也是在反观自己。 the litmus test will always be the "close enough to smell" connection. if they do not inspire us to respond, they're the wrong choices. sex is one of the arenas where a person is most themselves, and reveals that self most early and openly in a relationship. a relationship is a "people-growing process". simply be urself.
评分a very important issue
How to Choose a Partner 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书