戈登·诺伊费尔德博士,加拿大著名儿童发展心理学家,拥有40余年儿童与青少年发展研究经验,国际儿童发展领域权威。他擅长把复杂问题简单化,透过现象看本质,致力于借助应用科学发展方式帮助更多孩子。
加博尔·马泰,畅销书作家,撰写的畅销书被翻译成25种语言。
发表于2024-11-06
HOLD ON TO YOUR KIDS 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书
每个孩子都需要被看见。曾经央视做了一个纪录片《镜子》,总共三集,90分钟深度探讨家庭情感教育,直接当下家庭教育中的亲子冲突,情感困境,让所谓的问题少年说出心声,父母更需要改造。 孩子其实就是家长的一面镜子一个问题,孩子背后通常会有一个问题,家庭。每一个孩子都需...
评分每个孩子都需要被看见。曾经央视做了一个纪录片《镜子》,总共三集,90分钟深度探讨家庭情感教育,直接当下家庭教育中的亲子冲突,情感困境,让所谓的问题少年说出心声,父母更需要改造。 孩子其实就是家长的一面镜子一个问题,孩子背后通常会有一个问题,家庭。每一个孩子都需...
评分近些年原生家庭的概念被很多人反复提及,越来越多的人开始意识到家庭对于孩子成长的重要性。这种重要性不仅仅提现在身体上的生长,更多的还有在心里层面上一些潜移默化的影响。孩子们的成长需要爱、需要被养育者看见和理解,如果没有得到回应,对孩子来说,那就是最绝望的事情...
评分 评分本书主要讲述的就是孩子与父母之间的关系,也是家庭教育中最重要的内容,如果没有建立好这种关系,那么家庭教育也就很难取得很好的效果,为孩子性格的养成埋下祸根。也就是说很多问题的产生,背后的原因几乎都是关系问题。让我想到了‘变形记’里面的孩子,城里的孩子很多都是...
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A psychologist with a reputation for penetrating to the heart of complex parenting issues joins forces with a physician and bestselling author to tackle one of the most disturbing and misunderstood trends of our time -- peers replacing parents in the lives of our children.
Dr. Neufeld has dubbed this phenomenon peer orientation, which refers to the tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction: for a sense of right and wrong, for values, identity and codes of behaviour. But peer orientation undermines family cohesion, poisons the school atmosphere, and fosters an aggressively hostile and sexualized youth culture. It provides a powerful explanation for schoolyard bullying and youth violence; its effects are painfully evident in the context of teenage gangs and criminal activity, in tragedies such as in Littleton, Colorado; Tabor, Alberta and Victoria, B.C. It is an escalating trend that has never been adequately described or contested until Hold On to Your Kids . Once understood, it becomes self-evident -- as do the solutions.
Hold On to Your Kids will restore parenting to its natural intuitive basis and the parent-child relationship to its rightful preeminence. The concepts, principles and practical advice contained in Hold On to Your Kids will empower parents to satisfy their children’s inborn need to find direction by turning towards a source of authority, contact and warmth.
Something has changed. One can sense it, one can feel it, just not find the words for it. Children are not quite the same as we remember being. They seem less likely to take their cues from adults, less inclined to please those in charge, less afraid of getting into trouble. Parenting, too, seems to have changed. Our parents seemed more confident, more certain of themselves and had more impact on us, for better or for worse. For many, parenting does not feel natural. Adults through the ages have complained about children being less respectful of their elders and more difficult to manage than preceding generations, but could it be that this time it is for real? -- from Hold On to Your Kids
From the Hardcover edition.
Attachment is the key! Never ever “separation” attitude. Promote independence through dependence!
评分2015-12-17 整整三年前居然已经读过,而且没有什么收获。真的是时间积淀出意义。让我意识到『父母专政』的重要性。
评分2015-12-17 整整三年前居然已经读过,而且没有什么收获。真的是时间积淀出意义。让我意识到『父母专政』的重要性。
评分2015-12-17 整整三年前居然已经读过,而且没有什么收获。真的是时间积淀出意义。让我意识到『父母专政』的重要性。
评分Attachment is the key! Never ever “separation” attitude. Promote independence through dependence!
HOLD ON TO YOUR KIDS 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书