Paul Bloom is Professor of Psychology at Yale University. He is an internationally recognised expert on the psychology of language, social reasoning, morality and art. His previous books include Just Babies and How Pleasure Works, and he has written for numerous publications, including the New York Times, New Yorker and the Guardian. Bloom has won several awards for his research, articles and teaching, and his ‘Introduction to Psychology’ class was one of seven selected by Yale to be made available worldwide. His TED talks have been viewed 2.8 million times.
In a divided world, empathy is not the solution, it is the problem; a source of prejudice, not kindness.
We think of empathy – the ability to feel the suffering of others for ourselves – as the ultimate source of all good behaviour. But while it inspires care and protection in personal relationships, it has the opposite effect in the wider world. As the latest research in psychology and neuroscience shows, we feel empathy most for those we find attractive and who seem similar to us and not at all for those who are different, distant or anonymous. Empathy therefore biases us in favour of individuals we know while numbing us to the plight of thousands. Guiding us expertly through the experiments, case studies and arguments on all sides, Paul Bloom ultimately shows that some of our worst decisions – in charity, child-raising, criminal justice, climate change and war – are motivated by this wolf in sheep's clothing.
Brilliantly argued, urgent and humane, Against Empathy overturns widely held assumptions to reveal one of the most profound yet overlooked sources of human conflict. It demonstrates with absolute clarity that, when faced with moral decisions, we must choose reason and compassion, not empathy, as our guides.
發表於2024-12-05
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情侶和朋友相處,都希望對方能與己共情,快樂我的快樂,難過我的難過。 父母教育孩子,會努力培養孩子的共情能力,“寶貝,如果彆人這樣對你,你會有什麼感受呢?” 平時講課、寫文章的時候,也會注意感性理性結閤,因為隻有道理沒有故事的內容,難以激起受眾的共情。 共情如此...
評分“我必須開宗明義:我並不反對道德、慈悲、善良、愛、做一個好鄰居、做一個讓人尊敬的人或者做正確的事。實際上,我寫這本書就是為瞭支持以上所有事。我想要讓世界變得更好,隻是我認為用共情這種方法是行不通的。” 01 — 嚮常識挑戰的一本書。我讀後被作者說服瞭。 共情,就...
評分書評人:本傑明·索斯基斯 很多慈善組織利用虛擬現實技術作為籌款工具。戴上虛擬頭盔,瞬間置身於黎巴嫩的難民營,捐贈人很可能會捐款支持那些為難民提供救助的人道主義組織。但是,耶魯大學的心理學傢保羅·布魯姆(Paul Bloom)卻沒有被這種所謂的“同理心機器”打動。最近,...
評分如果你期望通過看這本書來發現作者有何擺脫共情的道理,那還是不要看瞭。 實際上,作者並沒有反對共情,或者鼓勵大傢擺脫共情,作者翻來覆去說得都是要認知共情,不要情緒共情而已... 其中有一段講述不要過度共情的例子很適用當下中國傢庭的教育,比如孩子的父母,相較於爺爺奶...
評分一晚上把《擺脫共情》讀完瞭(實際上隻花瞭不到四個小時..) 有點莫名其妙說實話。還是找不到擺脫共情的方法,隻是知道瞭為什麼要擺脫。說是用理性代替共情然而.. 總的來說很驚喜裏麵有我在《無處安放的同情》裏讀到關於老盧和亞當斯密的言論,隻不過這裏把“富有人性的英國人...
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Against Empathy 2024 pdf epub mobi 電子書 下載