The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck

Mark Manson is a blogger, author, thinker, life enthusiast and entrepreneur. He specializes in writing personal development advice that doesn't suck. His website MarkManson.net is read by over 2 million people each month. He lives in New York City.

出版者:HarperOne

作者:Manson, Mark

页数:224

出版时间:2016-9-13

价格:USD 17.99

装帧:平装

isbn号码:9780062641540

图书标签:psychology英文原版美国原版USOriginal2019Socio/Psycho

#1 International Bestseller and #1 New York Times Bestseller

Over 2 million copies sold

In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.

For decades, we've been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let's be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn't sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is--a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let's-all-feel-good mindset that has infected American society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.

Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited--"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.

There are only so many things we can give a f**k about so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real-talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives.

读后感

完全是就一本大烂书！怎么会有人有这种逼脸好为人生导师啊！真的是烂到都不知道从哪里开始骂起！最大的问题在于三点：一，毫无逻辑；二，凑字数；三，鸡汤的通病。 第一章就开始贩卖焦虑。对啊！不焦虑怎么会去浪费时间看这种书！我也一定是焦虑到脑子坏特了才会看啊！然后作者...  

好钢用在刀刃上 The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck 5/3/2020 题目起得亮眼，于是很popular，在图书馆有长长的waitlist。刚好轮到我，这本小书不长，很快读完。虽然总的来说这也是一本比较浅的书，但它是一本真诚的书，作者在若干章节记述了青少年时期的个人经历，让他的“说...  

用户评价

学到很多新视角

跟GRE写作似的导致越看越不想看????

one more time

典型的美国式口吻，博客式的写作风格，读起来比较轻松。内容比较主观，多是由个例或者个人经历引出结论，需要辩证地接收。一些见解比较有意思。"You only have limited f*cks to give, so choose wisely." 以及 "Accepting negative experience is positive, and chasing positive experience is negative." 可以一读。

Audible 上听完的第一本书，语言比较直白，主旨不错但是其实一篇博客就能讲清楚。Growth mindset / low ego 都是相通的吧。