Social Intelligence

出版者:0-0994

作者:Goleman, Daniel

页数:416

出版时间:2007-9

价格:131.00元

isbn号码:9780099464921

具体描述

Emotional Intelligence was an international phenomenon, appearing on the "New York Times" bestseller list for over a year and selling more than 5 million copies worldwide. Now, once again, Daniel Goleman has written a groundbreaking synthesis of the latest findings in biology and brain science, revealing that we are 'wired to connect' and the surprisingly deep impact of our relationships on every aspect our lives. Far more than we are consciously aware, our daily encounters with parents, spouses, bosses, and even strangers, shape our brains and affect cells throughout our bodies, down to the level of our genes - for good or ill. In "Social Intelligence", Daniel Goleman explores an emerging new science with startling implications for our interpersonal world. Its most fundamental discovery: we are designed for sociability, constantly engaged in a 'neural ballet' that connects us brain-to-brain with those around us. Goleman explains the surprising accuracy of first impressions, the basis of charisma and emotional power, the complexity of sexual attraction, and how we detect lies. He describes the 'dark side' of social intelligence, from narcissism to Machiavellianism and psychopathy. He also reveals our astonishing capacity for 'mindsight', as well as the tragedy of those, like autistic children, whose mindsight is impaired. In this book Daniel Goleman delivers his most heartening news with powerful conviction: we humans have a built-in bias toward empathy, cooperation and altruism - provided we develop the social intelligence to nurture these capacities in ourselves and others.

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读后感

最近读了一些书，每读完一本书，都要在豆瓣看看别人的评论。发现了一个很有趣的现象，几乎每一本书都有大量的批评声，尽管，更多的是赞扬声。面对同样的东西，为什么会有截然不同的评价？ 我怀疑这种分歧主要源于不同的知识背景、信息需求，乃至价值观念。用经济学上...  

学院派的作者写得还是比较学究的，各种实验，各种神经回路等等。但正如作者说的那样，就算你对社交的各因素可以分析得分条缕析，也不能让你成为社交高手。 就比如说我非常清楚地认识到自己为何不被某些群体接纳，这种认知也不能帮我融入那群体，尽管我有那意愿...  

** disclaimer: 再次重申我也没查字典，没仔细研究术语到底怎么翻译的，如果不清楚我就中英文都加了，希望不影响阅读。 这本书非常深刻的描述了人际关系对自己和对其他人的多方面影响。 第一部分：人脑结构决定了人的社会性。人天性中决定了对其他人的细微反应都能本能的捕...  

全书技巧性的东西比较少，更多是宏观的角度。好的沟通都是建立在双方比较放松的基础上的，和谐人际关系的三个要素就是：彼此的关注、共同的热情、理解和真诚。 社交商很高的人共同的特点就是：具有很强的设身处地理解对方的能力，需要*我们越是专心，就越能敏锐迅速地感受到他...

用户评价

我感觉好像是把很微不足道，然后，又是非常理所应当的事情拿出来说，有点莫名其妙

case分析→得到建议 用数据说话 解释了很多现象背后的原因 | high road /low road; 情绪的传播；偏见的形成，etc | 总体结构有太繁琐、松散

我感觉好像是把很微不足道，然后，又是非常理所应当的事情拿出来说，有点莫名其妙

case分析→得到建议 用数据说话 解释了很多现象背后的原因 | high road /low road; 情绪的传播；偏见的形成，etc | 总体结构有太繁琐、松散

case分析→得到建议 用数据说话 解释了很多现象背后的原因 | high road /low road; 情绪的传播；偏见的形成，etc | 总体结构有太繁琐、松散