For years Gary Smalley has helped millions of couples throughout North America enrich their relationships and deepen their bonds of love and companionship. In this extraordinary book， he shows you how to stay in love through all the stages of life. From first attraction to lifelong commitment， Gary s proven techniques and practical advice show you how to pursue and keep the love you want， and how to energize your relationship with enduring， passion-filled love. In this book you ll learn how to: Understand and use love s best-kept secret Deal with the number one enemy of loveTurn headaches into more loveIncrease your energy to keep lovingFind the power to keep on loving your spouseUse normal conflicts as doorways to intimacy Read a woman s built-in marriage manual twelve waysDivorce-proof your marriage Develop the five vital signs of a healthy marriageRespond to your partner s number one requestFind the powerful secret to great loveBring out the best in your maddening mate With humor， empathy， and insight， Gary Smalley inspires you to fall in love with life and enjoy the deep satisfaction of a lifelong love. Down-to-earth examples， touching personal experiences， and inspiring spiritual principles will motivate you to bring about positive changes in your marriage-whether or not your mate is a willing participant. You ll learn how to tap resources at hand to help you follow through with your journey-and make your love last forever.