CHAPTER 1<br >Baby Care<br >Having a baby is not unlike entering a tunnel. We can t see the end and<br >we wonder what we ve gotten ourselves into. We emerge five years later，<br >having had less sleep than we might have wished， but thinking that it<br >wasn t that rough after all. The difficult days become difficult to remem-<br >ber.<br >Despite the newness of everything we must do<br >really take long to become old hands at baby c<br >b . ， . .<br > ahes don t arnve wtth attached instructions，<br >express their needs loud and clear. And as far<br >as our expertise is concerned， new babies<br >don t realize that everything we do first time<br >round is just as new for us as it is for them.<br >WI-IEWt<br >Don t worry if yo<br >love for your infa<br >for real parental 1<br >between you and<br >，a don t feel (<br >nt instantly.<br >ove to devel<br >your baby.<br >>verwhelming<br >It often takes ~<br >op. Relax， and<br >some time， maybe months，<br >~ enjoy the developing bond<br >