~f you re anything like me， you re ecstatic to receive an invite to the<br >newest so.-hct-nobody-knows-about-it-yet boite (and would call in<br > many a favor to get your hands on one)， yet you hold<br >your local dive bar in the highest esteem ~and<br >treasure those freebies from your favorite bar-<br >tender). You like to look your best when you<br >head out for the night (even if you ve got to<br > hold up the salespeople at Saks a bit past clos-<br > ing time or run in for a 9pm mani/pedi to do<br > so)...most of the time. But you like to reserve<br >the right to say you couldn t<br > care less about<br >impressing anyone，<br >and hit the town in<br >your comfiest denim<br >and college tee， hold<br > the makeup please<br >.some of the time. And<br > when you go about the task of<br >choosing a bar， there are many fac-<br > tors you consider， which stray from<br > those that men hold dear---such as<br >