Foreword<br >STEPHEN ARTERBURN， M.ED<br >Since Dave Stoop and I published The Angry Man in 1991，<br >we have been bombarded with images of men and anger<br >that represent the venom of bitterness that flows through<br >the veins of millions of other men who never make head-<br >lines. These images and headlines have at their core anger，<br >hate， and rage.<br > The Menendez brothers， accused and tried for brutally<br >murdering their parents， have become a joke rather than an<br >example of tragedy that comes from resentment and rage. If<br >they are found guilty in their second trial， their crime will<br >have been to act out their anger against their parents rather<br >than get the help they needed before it was too late for them<br >and their parents. Two parents are dead and two boys are in<br >jail， all needless results of anger out of control.<br > Shortly after the Menendez story began to fade， the world<br >was shocked at the brutal and ruthless deaths of Nicole<br >Brown Simpson and Ron Goldman. These gory slashings<br >were at the hands of an angry person out of control. We will<br >probably never know exactly what happened on that bloody<br >sidewalk， but through testimony and 911 recordings we<br >have learned that for many men， under a controlled exterior<br >lies an angry heart so out of control it would attack what it<br ><br >