The material for this book is startlingly original and fresh, directly distilled from over thirty years of trial, error and reevaluation within seminars and trainings conducted by the author in the U.S. and Europe. The essential teaching tools are "Thought-Maps" that illustrate and guide the dynamics of evolving relationship, coupled with a series of experiments/"explorations" to be undertaken alone or with one's partner. Radiant Joy Brilliant Love does not merely talk about ideas. Rather, based on the author's skillful, and even shamanic, use of language, the book seeks to replace old ways of thinking with new "memes"-- fundamental design instructions for the structure of our minds. These memes are capable of transmitting a kind of deep clarity that allows the reader to immediately apply new possibilities. Readers will experience, first hand, what they are doing to undermine self and relationship, and learn how they can create something entirely different. Topics include: Making the leap from Defensive Learning to Expansive Learning. Breaking out of the relationship "Box." The lie of being unloveable. Navigating in the realm of feelings. Communication skills for explorers. A challenging book, full of both precise direction and helpful inspiration. Radiant Joy Brilliant Love is not for the naïve man or woman who believes the fantasy of an automatic "happily ever after." As long-term couples have discovered, love is built, not found. For those who are willing to pay the price--in self-reflection, honesty, listening and risking--this book will be an invaluable source of guidance in the building of a new foundation, and serve as a witness to the reality that human love is limitless.