How To Think More About Sex

Alain de Botton is the author of the international bestsellers, How Proust Can Change Your Life, The Art of Travel and Religion for Atheists, and other books that try to throw light on the big challenges of our lives. He is the founder of Living Architecture (www.living-architecture.co.uk), a social enterprise which gets top architects to build holiday homes for rental by anyone. He is also founder of The School of Life (www.theschooloflife.com), for which this series has been designed.The School of Life is a London-based enterprise that is dedicated to the most useful ideas relevant to the dilemmas of everyday life. We consider questions like: How can we fulfil our potential? Can work be inspiring? Why does community matter? Can relationships last a lifetime? We don't have all the answers, but we will direct you towards a variety of useful ideas - from philosophy to literature, psychology to the visual arts - that are guaranteed to stimulate, provoke, nourish and console.

出版者:Macmillan

作者:Alain de Botton

页数:160

出版时间:2012-5-10

价格:GBP 7.99

装帧:Paperback

isbn号码:9781447202271

图书标签:AlainDeBotton英国随笔哲学阿兰·德波顿英文原版爱情科普

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In this rigorous and supremely honest book Alain de Botton helps us navigate the intimate and exciting - yet often confusing and difficult - experience that is sex. Few of us tend to feel we're entirely normal when it comes to sex, and what we're supposed to be feeling rarely matches up with the reality. This book argues that 21st-century sex is ultimately fated to be a balancing act between love and desire, and adventure and commitment. Covering topics that include lust, fetishism, adultery and pornography, Alain de Botton frankly articulates the dilemmas of modern sexuality, offering insights and consolation to help us think more deeply and wisely about the sex we are, or aren't, having.

读后感

刚开始看到这个标题， 就想笑， 之后， 就心里替作者发怵， 弗洛伊德讲， 人最终的欲望都可以归结为性欲。 这次 阿兰 德 波顿准备玩多大， 心里实在没底儿。 内容其实很简单， 不外乎， 用人们的性欲为线索， 用几个主题，就练成了一本薄薄的书。 ...  

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全篇有点杂糅，很多观点，比如偷情，不举我觉得难免解释的有点牵强。但是书中对中产阶级制造的婚姻观念还是值得一读的。万恶的中产，我总觉得我们能够接触到的社会，大部分情况下都是中产与中产的沟通，其实没有什么是不可解释的，更没有什么三观不合的，只是阶级的束缚让我们...  

用户评价

哲学家说我告诉你怎么理解fetish啊，adultery啊，pleasure啊，pornography啊，impotence。。。起因经过结果点点点点。然后告诉你，哎，其实这些破事，特么一点解决办法都没有。你只能跟生活和解。

好看。 许多看似难以启齿理解不能的个人问题，其实与社会巨大的变化息息相关

I promise to be disappointed by you and you alone. I promise to make you the sole repository of my regrets, rather than distribute them widely through multiple affairs and a life of sexual Don Juanism. I have surveyed the different options for unhappiness, and it is you I have chosen to commit myself to.

Alain strikes again--well, guess my understanding of sex and marriage has "deepened" lol

第三本关于性、婚姻出轨，话题劲爆但觉得内容一般，比较喜欢的部分是他写出轨，人性太复杂难测，某种意义上出轨也是维护了婚姻联盟