Sons and Lovers

戴·赫·劳伦斯，（David Herbert Lawrence，1885～1930）英国诗人、小说家、散文家。出生于矿工家庭，当过屠户会计、厂商雇员和小学教师，曾在国内外漂泊十多年，对现实抱批判否定态度。他写过诗，但主要写长篇小说，共有10部，最著名的为《虹》（1915）、《爱恋中的女人》（1921）和《查太莱夫人的情人》（1928）。劳伦斯生于1885年。父亲是矿工，缺少教育；母亲出身上流社会，有良好的修养。这种文化上的差异，使他们经常吵吵闹闹。但这种差异使劳伦斯从父亲那里得到了丰富的社会经验，从母亲那里至高无上的关怀。也许是母亲过分溺爱，劳伦斯有严重的恋母情结。他在给朋友的信中说：“我们相互爱着，几乎像丈夫跟妻子那样的爱，同时又是母亲与儿子的爱。我们俩就像一个人，彼此那样敏感，我们之间不要语言。这挺可怕，弄得我有些方面不正常。”劳伦斯是最富想象力的作家，他如不过早地逝世，肯定会有更惊世的作品问世，也许更会被列为禁书。

出版者:Bantam Classics

作者:D. H. Lawrence

页数:496

出版时间:1985-8-1

价格:USD 5.95

装帧:Mass Market Paperback

isbn号码:9780553211924

图书标签:D.H.Lawrence英国文学小说英文英国@英语原版（英语国家）外国文学Lovers

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Since its publication in 1913, D. H. Lawrence's powerful and passionate third novel stands as one of the greatest autobiographical novels of the twentieth century. Here is the story of artist Paul Morel as a young man, his powerful relationship with his possessive mother, his passionate love affair with Miriam Leivers, his intense liaison with married Clara Dawes. Here, too, England's Derbyshire springs to life with both is sooty mining villages and deep green pastures, a setting as full of contrasts as the deep emotions that rule this remarkable book.

Sons and Lovers is rich with universal truths about relationships; moreover, it brims with what Alfred Kazin has called Lawrence's "magic sympathy, between himself and life." Continues Mr. Kazin: "No other writer of his imaginative standing has in our time written books that are so open to life...Since for Lawrence the great subject of literature was not the writer's own consciousness but consciousness between people, the living felt relationship between them, it was his very concern to represent the 'shimmer' of life, the 'wholeness'...that made possible his brilliance as a novelist."

With an Introduction by John Gross

读后感

在我的阅读经验里，小说可以有两种“深刻”：其一，壮阔、宏大、繁复，如《悲惨世界》和《百年孤独》；另一种，在小范围的时空里，在平凡人的身上，发掘出深刻的独特的意义，如福克纳，如劳伦斯。有些人向外扩展，有些人内省以寻找，两种都可以做得卓越——人心同样是一个深不...  

两个月的时间，总算断断续续读完，母亲的不幸是儿子恋母的主因，这位不幸的母亲，多少有些自视清高，你看她走路时高昂的姿态，不愿与周围邻居为伍的心理，都能说明这个女人对自己的婚姻、生活都抱有很高的期望，也自视高人一等，然而现实却相差太远，于是让儿子继承自己的遗志...  

两个月的时间，总算断断续续读完，母亲的不幸是儿子恋母的主因，这位不幸的母亲，多少有些自视清高，你看她走路时高昂的姿态，不愿与周围邻居为伍的心理，都能说明这个女人对自己的婚姻、生活都抱有很高的期望，也自视高人一等，然而现实却相差太远，于是让儿子继承自己的遗志...  

DH劳伦斯写给加尼特的信里说：当儿子长大起来时，她们的母亲就挑选她们作为情人。首先是最大的儿子，然后是次子。这是儿子们由于与母亲之间的爱推动，儿来到人世。而且一直受到这种力量的推动。然而当他们长大成人时他们却失去了恋爱的能力。因为母亲作为他们生活中最强大的力...  

刚刚看完D.H Lawrence的《sons and lovers》, 这本半自传体的小说看到最后有点伤感。 因为一直认为是写恋母情结的书，所以一直很好奇。看完之后才理解在英美文学课上老师对Lawrence的评价----探讨两性之间的关系---男性和女性，其中有性别，当然也有“性”。看完之后才发现这...  

用户评价

书是考心理咨询师的友人赠，说劳伦斯的小说是俄狄浦斯情结的好案例，误买成了英文版。劳伦斯的文笔让人很舒服，明明故事冲突如火如荼，表面上却推进得风轻云淡风轻。

The protagonists didn't kiss for the second time until I fininshed 3/4 of the book. Not even a shadow of 情色 was observed by me. I was cheated by its recommendation words!

我们多多少少都有俄狄浦斯情节和伊莱科特拉情节，sigh……

写的还行吧

This novel carries with it very moving honesty in it, the nature blends in beautifully with human ecstasy and disappointment . There's a time for everything - to escape or to confront the truth. Paul went through stages of self deception. These are all paths that he had to experience in order to confront the truth, not self denial. So he got there.