The Five Love Languages

Married more than 45 years to Karolyn, Dr. Gary Chapman is just the man to turn to for help on improving or healing our most important relationships. His own life experiences, plus over forty years of pastoring and marriage counseling, led him to publish his first book in the Love Language series, The 5 Love Languages®: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate. Millions of readers credit this continual #1 New York Times bestseller with saving their marriages by showing them simple and practical ways to communicate their love to their partner.Since the success of his first book, Dr. Chapman has expanded his 5 Love Languages® series to specifically reach out to teens, singles, men, and children.He is the author of numerous other books published by Moody Publishers/Northfield Publishing, including Anger, The Family You’ve Always Wanted, The Marriage You’ve Always Wanted, Desperate Marriages, God Speaks Your Love Language, Parenting Your Adult Child, and Hope for the Separated. He coauthored The Five Languages of Apology with Dr. Jennifer Thomas.Chapman speaks to thousands of couples nationwide through his weekend marriage conferences. He hosts a nationally syndicated radio program, Love Language Minute, and a Saturday morning program, Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, that air on more than 400 stations. Dr. Chapman also serves as senior associate pastor at Calvary Baptist Church in Winston-Salem, North Carolina.Dr. Chapman holds BA and MA degrees in anthropology from Wheaton College and Wake Forest University, respectively, MRE and PhD degrees from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, and has completed postgraduate work at the University of North Carolina and Duke University.Dr. Chapman and his wife have two adult children and two grandchildren, and currently live in Winston-Salem, North Carolina.

出版者:Northfield Publishing

作者:Gary Chapman

页数:204

出版时间:1995-06-01

价格:USD 14.99

装帧:Paperback

isbn号码:9781881273158

图书标签:爱婚姻英文原版心理学两性情商英语原版

Are you and your spouse speaking the same language? While love may be a many- splendored thing, it is sometimes a very confusing thing, too. And as people come in all varieties, shapes, and sizes, so do their choices of personal expressions of love. But, more often than not, the giver and the receiver express love in two different ways. This can lead to misunderstanding, quarrels, and even divorce. Dr. Gary Chapman identifies five basic languages of love: Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. He then guides couples towards a better understanding of their unique languages of love. Learn to speak and understand your mate's love language, and in no time you will be able to effectively love and truly feel loved in return. Skillful communication is within your grasp

读后感

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本书为智慧点心坊108本心灵书的旅程第107本 "如果，配偶不了解我们爱的‘母语’，我们就不能依赖它；如果，我们要他或她感觉到我们传达的爱，我们就须以他或她的爱的语言来表达。 We cannot rely on our native tongue if our spouse does not understand it. If we ...  

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用户评价

反思自我，努力修正，理性度过in love阶段后的boring period。

Meet your spouse's emotional needs, basically in five ways, and he will meet yours reciprocally.

Meet your spouse's emotional needs, basically in five ways, and he will meet yours reciprocally.

Meet your spouse's emotional needs, basically in five ways, and he will meet yours reciprocally.

You got to know others' love languages and do them if you want to love and to be loved.