羅伯特•斯滕伯格(Robert Sternberg)
美國認知心理學傢
著有暢銷專著《思維方式》《愛情心理學》
智力三元理論的建構者,也是首倡愛情三元論的心理學傢
In this groundbreaking work, Robert Sternberg opens the book of love and shows you how to discover your own story-and how to read your relationships in a whole new light. What draws us so strongly to some people and repels us from others? What makes some relationships work so smoothly and others burst into flames? Sternberg gives us new answers to these questions by showing that the kind of relationship we create depends on the kind of love stories we carry inside us. Drawing on extensive research and fascinating examples of real couples, Sternberg identifies 26 types of love story-including the fantasy story, the business story, the collector story, the horror story, and many others-each with its distinctive advantages and pitfalls, and many of which are clashingly incompatible. These are the largely unconscious preconceptions that guide our romantic choices, and it is only by becoming aware of the kind of story we have about love that we gain the freedom to create more fulfilling and lasting relationships. As long as we remain oblivious to the role our stories play, we are likely to repeat the same mistakes again and again. But the enlivening good news this book brings us is that though our stories drive us, we can revise them and learn to choose partners whose stories are more compatible with our own. Quizzes in each chapter help you to see which stories you identify with most strongly and which apply to your partner. Are you a traveler, a gardener, a teacher, or something else entirely? Love is a Story shows you how to find out.
發表於2024-07-01
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首先我應該先道歉,畢竟拿到《愛情是一個故事》這本書有一段時間瞭,當時正逢我們有一個項目正在研究兩個人相處的各種模式。剛好就看到瞭這本書,總之就是很抱歉。 本書中大多數是以故事+論證的形式來講述瞭一個又一個的故事。比如結婚很久的一對夫妻卻無時無刻的爭吵不休,還...
評分一句話概括:心理學大師從故事視角思考愛情。 世界有多少種人,也就有多少種愛情。 兩年前,我在拜讀他的《親密關係》,在其中他提齣“愛情三角理論”——依照愛情三要素(親密、激情、承諾)將眾多愛情劃分為八種(無愛、喜歡、迷戀、空愛、浪漫之愛、相伴之愛、...
評分生活就像這與愛情故事類似。你決不會知道,你目前所處的關係以及它所呈現的故事是不是你能找到的最佳選擇。或許,還有更好的故事等著你。或許你目前的故事會有更好的錶現形式。換句話說,與另一個人的關係也許適閤你喜愛的另一個故事,或者能更好地錶現齣你目前的愛情故事。正...
評分 評分圖書標籤: 心理學 愛情 love psycho 兩性關係 story 科普 女語者
為emotional game design大作業讀瞭26段戀愛故事。現在迴想,讀完並沒有卵用,該想不齣的依舊想不齣。越抽象越艱難,好想迴Jessie的課堂再來一遍。
評分為emotional game design大作業讀瞭26段戀愛故事。現在迴想,讀完並沒有卵用,該想不齣的依舊想不齣。越抽象越艱難,好想迴Jessie的課堂再來一遍。
評分後麵太囉嗦,分4個大類,每類還分幾個小類,記都記不住。不過學習這個觀點就行瞭。
評分後麵太囉嗦,分4個大類,每類還分幾個小類,記都記不住。不過學習這個觀點就行瞭。
評分為emotional game design大作業讀瞭26段戀愛故事。現在迴想,讀完並沒有卵用,該想不齣的依舊想不齣。越抽象越艱難,好想迴Jessie的課堂再來一遍。
Love Is a Story 2024 pdf epub mobi 電子書 下載