发表于2024-12-23
Never Good Enough 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书
1981年9月25日,桑德拉·戴·奥康纳(Sandra Day O'Connor)宣誓就职,成为美国史上首位最高法院女性大法官。桑德拉不仅在事业上游刃有余,对家庭也照顾周到。她与同是法律系的同学约翰相识于校园,毕业不久就结婚。生子后,桑德拉有长达五年的时间离开职场,专心做全职妈妈,...
评分完美主义,在世人看来一直是个好词。 以前,我也愚蠢的自认为完美主义是个好的人生态度,当别人说我是不是追求完美时,都有点沾沾自喜地回答,我是比较追求完美。 人生走到现在,回观自己,啥是完美主义? 所谓完美主义的背后恰恰是最不美的一面。 完美主义意味着对自己的...
评分特别喜欢这句话 : “所谓成熟,就是不苛求别人,不为难自己。” 这本书让我看到了自己。“内向型完美主义者不敢犯错,担心丢脸,而且尤其在乎别人对自己的看法;而外向型完美主义者在家里或者工作中总对别人过于苛责与烦躁,不自觉地使得人际关系变得紧张或产生矛盾。”实际上...
评分特别喜欢这句话 : “所谓成熟,就是不苛求别人,不为难自己。” 这本书让我看到了自己。“内向型完美主义者不敢犯错,担心丢脸,而且尤其在乎别人对自己的看法;而外向型完美主义者在家里或者工作中总对别人过于苛责与烦躁,不自觉地使得人际关系变得紧张或产生矛盾。”实际上...
评分很多时候,自己觉得很困惑,为什么很多事情都会成为自己的思想负担,原来是自己兼具了内向与外向型的完美主义,一方面自己的言行很在意别人的看法,另一方面很容易被别人的言行所影响,一直绝对很累,但是找不到原因,看了这本书,我很感谢,有机会读到这样的书,让我认识到自...
图书标签: 心理学 完美 people
* Do you feel that no matter how hard you try it is never good enough? * Do you spend too much time trying to get things exactly right in order to avoid criticism? * Does it seem that at any minute people will find out that you are not really what you seem to be? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you may be struggling with perfectionistic tendencies. They "can" serve a positive purpose in your life. But having extremely high standards for yourself and others can leave you feeling let down -- over and over again -- when these expectations aren't met. As psychologist and researcher Monica Ramirez Basco explains, uncontrolled perfectionism can lead to depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, fear of failure, and broken marriages and friendships. In "Never Good Enough" Dr. Basco helps you understand "why" you feel driven to get things "just right" and shows you how to make the best of your perfectionism. Filled with practical advice, encouragement, and strategies for self-discovery, this invaluable guide includes Dr. Basco's own thirty-question self-test that will help you recognize and manage the negative side of your perfectionism. You will learn how to stop the struggle with yourself and others, how to evaluate your worth and performance in life, and how to replace the pursuit of perfection with peace of mind.
solid but boring。在认识自己上,并不是很有帮助,改变自己的作用更小。
评分solid but boring。在认识自己上,并不是很有帮助,改变自己的作用更小。
评分solid but boring。在认识自己上,并不是很有帮助,改变自己的作用更小。
评分solid but boring。在认识自己上,并不是很有帮助,改变自己的作用更小。
评分solid but boring。在认识自己上,并不是很有帮助,改变自己的作用更小。
Never Good Enough 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书