Why Love Is Not Enough explains: How to tell if the person you love is the last person on earth with whom should settle down The ten most important characteristics of a successful relationship How to become more attractive and desirable to others What you must ask before you consider marrying a divorced person How to let go of a destructive or painful relationship Nationally acclaimed psychologist Dr. Sol Gordon shatters the myth that love alone can build a satisfying relationship， identifies the people and relationships you must walk away from， and outlines the essential components of a happy relationship. Whether you re actively considering marrying someone or simply trying to find "the right person"...whether you re happy with a potential mate or trapped in an unhealthy situation...whether you re certain about what you want from your next partner or a little unsure about what will make things work...Dr. Sol Gordon s insightful advice will help you make important choices about love， lovers， and relationships.