Who, Me,Yes, you can give a wonderful birthday party for your youngchild that is as much fun for you as for the birthday child andthe guests. These younger years are a very special time. By thetime kids are in elementary school, they have very definiteideas about their own parties--which might not coincide withyours. This is a chance to focus on your child and create memo-ries that will last a lifetime. Besides, birthday parties are a tre-mendous boost to any child's self-esteem. A happy day ofone's own is the best birthday gift you can give your child. The basic components of any party are really quite simple:invitations, decorations, presents, cake and ice cream, favors,and some planned activities. Don't try to include every ideayou've ever heard or read about (that includes the ideas in thisbook, too!) or you'll be exhausted and the kids will be over-whelmed. Give the kind of party you enjoy giving--not theone you think you "should" give. Too often, parents look upona birthday party as a ritual to be endured, or as an opportunityto make a lavish party for their own friends.