Women Who Love Too Much

作者:Norwood, Robin

页数:320

出版时间:2004-9

价格:163.00元

装帧:paperback

isbn号码:9780099474128

具体描述

Is having 'somebody to love' the most important thing in your life? Do you constantly believe that with 'the right man' you would no longer feel depressed or lonely? Are you bored with 'nice guys' who are open, honest and dependable? If being in love means being in pain, this book was written for you. Therapist Robin Norwood describes loving too much as a pattern of thoughts and behavior, which certain women develop as a response to problems from childhood. Many women find themselves repeatedly drawn into unhappy and destructive relationships with men. They then struggle to make these doomed relationships work. This bestselling book takes a hard look at how powerfully addictive these unhealthy relationships are - but also gives a very specific program for recovery from the disease of loving too much.

作者简介

Robin Norwood is a licensed marriage, family and child therapist in private practice. She specialises in treating unhealthy patterns of relating in love relationships, as well as addiction, co-addiction, compulsive eating, and depression. She lives with her husband in Santa Barbara, California.

读后感

如果你是标题所指的这类人，真的不妨读一读这本书，或许她就是你苦苦找寻的答案。 你确定很爱他，你们曾经也很甜蜜，但最近却越来越疏远，你们一次次沟通交流，甚至吵架冷战，但是关系不但没有朝着你们希望的方向发展，反而有背道而驰的危险； 你爱上一个不该爱的人，你已经...  

看书的封面以为是本小说，打开一看才知是一本心理治疗的书。很有趣的话题，内容却是颇显沉重，一个个爱得太多的女人粉墨登场，诉说她们因爱得太多而受伤的故事。不能说不伤感，不能说不心疼。 本书的作者从心理治疗师的角度冷静而客观地记录她的观察和分析，并从专业的角度给...  

用户评价

Suffering is not necessarily a part of true love. Don't be fooled by all romantic staff. We just waste too much time striving to change someone else rather than ourselves. It's time to break the pattern of relating to impossible men and take the courage to face your own flawed life.

A life-changing one.有些书你读过后就无法再用以前的眼光看待世界了，而这对于loving too much来说无疑是必要的。读时几次落泪几次被震撼，而最让我惊讶的是书中蕴涵了许多爱情之外的人生启发。爱情无非也只是人性中的一部分，解决爱情的步骤就是解决人生问题的步骤，在寻找快乐和幸福的路上，有太多值得去做去尝试的改变了。

stop manipulating and controlling others even by cooking, presents, sex, and love......what you need is a rewarding relationship. Your highest happiness is the first priority.

Love, such a curious and fictitious thing. Let's A/B test love.

这书在我这放了两个多月了，昨天才又开始拿起来读，没想到第一章的内容就和我几周前突然想明白的感受一模一样。我在想，如果我自己没有意识到，看到她写的内容时仍然会认同吗？