Tommy knew he loved Sarah, but was taught by the men in his family to put notches in his belt. He thought women were only sex objects until no matter what he did, worked. It was as if his life was just an illusion. He started feeling that he was living a vain and empty life, so he asked his mother, "What am I suppose to do with women?" Tommy's mother handed him something to read that changed his view about why God created women and put men in position as the head of the family. Tommy found out a prepared man is a man of dreams and visions. His position in life eventually esteemed from his dreams. After TerriLynn was murdered, and he almost lost Sarah, he knew that nothing would ever come between them again. The feminine part of this world is to unfold the beauty of what is hidden. Tommy eventually realized what his potential was and that was to love his wife so that he could bring the best out of her.