Things I Wish I'd Known Before We Got Married

盖瑞•查普曼博士（Dr.Gary Chapman）是享誉全球的婚恋辅导专家，他的代表作《爱的五种语言》曾长时间高居《纽约时报》畅销书排行榜榜首，全球热销400多万册。查普曼博士具有丰富的辅导经验和专业的辅导技巧，在美国各地举办婚姻研习会，定期为已婚者做婚姻辅导，他的讲座和书籍改变了无数人的家庭生活。他也是国内已经翻译出版的畅销书《爱的五种语言》及《儿童爱之语》《单身爱之语》《心灵之约》《道歉的五种语言》等书的作者。

出版者:Northfield Publishing

作者:Gary Chapman

页数:161

出版时间:2010-8-21

价格:USD 12.99

isbn号码:9781598597776

图书标签:Relationship心理学婚恋生活两性科普社科婚前须知

Gary Chapman writes, "Most people spend far more time in preparation for their vocation than they do in preparation for marriage." No wonder the divorce rate hovers around fifty percent. Bestselling author and marriage counselor Gary Chapman hopes to change that with his newest book. Gary, with more than 35 years of counseling couples, believes that divorce is the lack of preparation for marriage and the failure to learn the skills of working together as intimate teammates. So he put together this practical little book, packed with wisdom and tips that will help many develop the loving, supportive and mutually beneficial marriage men and women long for. It's the type of information Gary himself wished he had before he got married. This is not a book simply to be read. It is a book to be experienced. The material lends itself to heart-felt discussions by dating or engaged couples. To jump-start the exchanges, each short chapter includes insightful "Talking it Over" questions and suggestions. And, the book includes information on interactive websites as well as books that will enhance the couples experience.Dr. Chapman even includes a thought-provoking appendix. By understanding and balancing the five key aspects of life, dating couples can experience a healthy dating relationship. A revealing learning exercise for dating couples is included at the end.

读后感

我相信没有人能在结婚前就做好十分的准备，毕竟人的很多方面是在共同生活一段时间后才能被了解的。但是，这不妨碍我们尽可能多地做好准备——了解自己、了解对方、了解对方的原生家庭。 1.光有passion是不够的 2.了解自己和对方的爱语（肯定的言语、服务的行动、接受礼物、精心...  

我相信没有人能在结婚前就做好十分的准备，毕竟人的很多方面是在共同生活一段时间后才能被了解的。但是，这不妨碍我们尽可能多地做好准备——了解自己、了解对方、了解对方的原生家庭。 1.光有passion是不够的 2.了解自己和对方的爱语（肯定的言语、服务的行动、接受礼物、精心...  

【2016读书手札·12】Gary.Chapman《但愿婚前我知道-12件预备婚姻的大事》：即将恋爱、结婚以及离婚的，想要拥有更好亲密关系的.....都该花1小时看一下，花2小时和爱人探讨一下，然后用一生来践行。【如果实在懒得看，麻烦我亲爱的朋友们花一分钟默读以下12条】 1.彼此爱恋不足...

用户评价

quite practical and useful to open our mind towards marriage

之前以为这是一本类似心灵鸡汤的书，其实不然。本书提供了很实际的案例和指导，后附严谨的citation，值得好好研读。

quite practical and useful to open our mind towards marriage

quite practical and useful to open our mind towards marriage

问题都提的很好，就是解决方法略单一。。基本都是，要交流啊。不过能提前预知这些问题，然后有心理准备，就已经足够了。不过，这些事情我早都懂。。。不过是某些同学的教科书，此处应有扣鼻屎表情