阿兰・德波顿(Alain de Botton),英伦才子型作家,生于1969年,毕业于剑桥大学,现住伦敦。著有小说《爱情笔记》(1993)、《爱上浪漫》(1994)、《亲吻与诉说》(1995)及散文作品《拥抱逝水年华》(1997)、《哲学的慰藉》(2000)、《旅行的艺术》(2002)。他的作品已被译成二十几种文字。...
"Essays in Love" will appeal to anyone who has ever been in a relationship or confused about love. The book charts the progress of a love affair from the first kiss to argument and reconciliation, from intimacy and tenderness to the onset of anxiety and heartbreak. The work's genius lies in the way it minutely analyses emotions we've all felt before but have perhaps never understood so well: it includes a chapter on the anxieties of when and how to say 'I love you' and another on the challenges of disagreeing with someone else's taste in shoes.While gripping the reader with the talent of a great novelist, de Botton brings a philosopher's sensibility to his analyses of the emotions of love, resulting in a genre-breaking book that is at once touching and thought-provoking. 'The book's success has much to do with its beautifully modelled sentences, its wry humour and its unwavering deadpan respect for its reader's intelligence ...full of keen observation and flashes of genuine lyricism, acuity and depth' - Francine Prose, New Republic. 'Witty, funny, sophisticated, neatly tied up, and full of wise and illuminating insights' - P. J. Kavanagh, "Spectator". 'De Botton is a national treasure' - Susan Hill. 'I doubt if de Botton has written a dull sentence in his life' - Jan Morris, "New Statesman". 'Single-handedly, de Botton has taken philosophy back to its simplest and most important purpose: helping us to live our lives' - "Independent".
爱情是一种馈赠,而馈赠的因由不为我们所知。 【相遇】爱的需要总是先于爱一个特定的人。我们选择的伴侣必定在相遇的人当中,如果给与不同的范围,不同的航班,不同的时间或者事件,那么爱上的可能是不同的人。人们总是混淆了注定去爱和注定爱上一位特定的人之间的区别。 【...
评分还是从小细节说起吧。作者在书中提到,他不确定他对克洛艾的感情就是爱情,也许在不同的时代人们对这种情感有不同的解释。然后他举了例子,阿维拉的圣特里萨修女,引用了一段日记式的文字:某个少年如此夺目,好像拿了一把金色的剑刺进修女的心。作者说也许修女成就了一次精神...
评分 评分还是从小细节说起吧。作者在书中提到,他不确定他对克洛艾的感情就是爱情,也许在不同的时代人们对这种情感有不同的解释。然后他举了例子,阿维拉的圣特里萨修女,引用了一段日记式的文字:某个少年如此夺目,好像拿了一把金色的剑刺进修女的心。作者说也许修女成就了一次精神...
评分除了亲身体验,媒介环境也在人类关于爱情的感知、经验和理解上扮演着重要的角色。不同的时代和社会文化背景下,扮演者有着根本性的不同。 很遗憾,中国家庭和学校,压根就没有任何爱情的启蒙教育。文学在这个时代又处于边缘的地位,于是肥皂剧和言情小说成了最重要的情感导师...
我擦这本书写的和蕾丝边入门一样的
评分第10章language in love给5星。伦敦各种地名的出现看着感觉很好……
评分A wonderful read. We all know how hard it is to understand love, let alone to write about it, to decipher its mysterious twists and turns. As always, Alain de Botton has been witty, sophisticated, honest, and thought provoking.
评分"Both romantic positivism and stoicism were inadequate answers to the problems raised by the agonies of love." So, just enjoy the process, you will never know.:)
评分写得真美又不失深度。很多地方都极有共鸣。
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