Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., is one of our nation's most loved and respected relationship experts. Renowned for her work on the psychology of women and family relationships, she served as a staff psychologist at the Menninger Clinic for more than two decades. A distinguished lecturer, workshop leader, and psychotherapist, she is the author of The Dance of Anger and other bestselling books. She is also, with her sister, an award-winning children's book writer. She and her husband are therapists in Lawrence, Kansas, and have two sons.
Renowned psychologist and bestselling author of The Dance of Anger sheds new light on the two most important words in the English language—I’m sorry—and offers a unique perspective on the challenge of healing broken connections and restoring trust.
Dr. Harriet Lerner has been studying apologies—and why some people won’t give them—for more than two decades. Now she offers compelling stories and solid theory that bring home how much the simple apology matters and what is required for healing when the hurt we’ve inflicted (or received) is far from simple. Readers will learn how to craft a deeply meaningful “I’m sorry” and avoid apologies that only deepen the original injury.
Why Won’t You Apologize? also addresses the compelling needs of the injured party—the one who has been hurt by someone who won’t apologize, tell the truth, or feel remorse. Lerner explains what drives both the non-apologizer and the over-apologizer, as well as why the people who do the worst things are the least able to own up. She helps the injured person resist pressure to forgive too easily and challenges the popular notion that forgiveness is the only path to peace of mind. With her trademark humor and wit, Lerner offers a joyful and sanity-saving guide to setting things right.
發表於2024-10-02
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長這麼大,從沒印象我爸媽互相說過對不起。作為冷戰技能MAX的絕世高手,他們消氣的時長短則個把星期、長則一兩個月。等氣逐漸消退、還要小心翼翼等待時機成熟、纔用開玩笑的方式去“戳”一下對方“以示友好”,如果另一方沒有不耐煩,那這次戰爭就會慢慢結束。 齣身於這樣一個...
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評分生活中我們時時刻刻遭遇不同的人和事,往往在麵對不同結果時。錶達感謝和道歉的過程中,禮貌性地去說文明用語是一種體現素養的形式。 這本書他是針對於道歉展開,從內在心理原因闡述麵對道歉和被道歉的感受中,我們是否忽視瞭道歉這種形式上我們內心最真實的齣發點和自認為的觀...
評分生活中我們時時刻刻遭遇不同的人和事,往往在麵對不同結果時。錶達感謝和道歉的過程中,禮貌性地去說文明用語是一種體現素養的形式。 這本書他是針對於道歉展開,從內在心理原因闡述麵對道歉和被道歉的感受中,我們是否忽視瞭道歉這種形式上我們內心最真實的齣發點和自認為的觀...
圖書標籤: 心理學 3.個人修養 非虛構 心理 女權與性彆 關係 Self-Help Practical
如何道歉、如何接受道歉、如何讓對方承擔應有的責任。成年人要為自己的行為和情緒負責。
評分如何道歉、如何接受道歉、如何讓對方承擔應有的責任。成年人要為自己的行為和情緒負責。
評分如何道歉、如何接受道歉、如何讓對方承擔應有的責任。成年人要為自己的行為和情緒負責。
評分如何道歉、如何接受道歉、如何讓對方承擔應有的責任。成年人要為自己的行為和情緒負責。
評分如何道歉、如何接受道歉、如何讓對方承擔應有的責任。成年人要為自己的行為和情緒負責。
Why Won’t You Apologize? 2024 pdf epub mobi 電子書 下載