瑪莎•斯托特博士,任職於哈佛大學醫學院,為美國知名臨床精神病學專傢,也是哈佛醫學院精神科的臨床講師。其他著作還包括《精神健全的奧秘》。目前,定居在美國馬薩諸塞州。
Who is the devil you know?
Is it your lying, cheating ex-husband?
Your sadistic high school gym teacher?
Your boss who loves to humiliate people in meetings?
The colleague who stole your idea and passed it off as her own?
In the pages of The Sociopath Next Door , you will realize that your ex was not just misunderstood. He’s a sociopath. And your boss, teacher, and colleague? They may be sociopaths too.
We are accustomed to think of sociopaths as violent criminals, but in The Sociopath Next Door , Harvard psychologist Martha Stout reveals that a shocking 4 percent of ordinary people—one in twenty-five—has an often undetected mental disorder, the chief symptom of which is that that person possesses no conscience. He or she has no ability whatsoever to feel shame, guilt, or remorse. One in twenty-five everyday Americans, therefore, is secretly a sociopath. They could be your colleague, your neighbor, even family. And they can do literally anything at all and feel absolutely no guilt.
How do we recognize the remorseless? One of their chief characteristics is a kind of glow or charisma that makes sociopaths more charming or interesting than the other people around them. They’re more spontaneous, more intense, more complex, or even sexier than everyone else, making them tricky to identify and leaving us easily seduced. Fundamentally, sociopaths are different because they cannot love. Sociopaths learn early on to show sham emotion, but underneath they are indifferent to others’ suffering. They live to dominate and thrill to win.
The fact is, we all almost certainly know at least one or more sociopaths already. Part of the urgency in reading The Sociopath Next Door is the moment when we suddenly recognize that someone we know—someone we worked for, or were involved with, or voted for—is a sociopath. But what do we do with that knowledge? To arm us against the sociopath, Dr. Stout teaches us to question authority, suspect flattery, and beware the pity play. Above all, she writes, when a sociopath is beckoning, do not join the game.
It is the ruthless versus the rest of us, and The Sociopath Next Door will show you how to recognize and defeat the devil you know.
發表於2024-05-20
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我對心理學這門學科的感情很復雜。我本人也算是進行過生物醫學領域相關研究的理工科生,在我看來,人體是一部精密的機器,一切行為與意識都是和身體的各項參數與調控相關的,包括情緒、思維、行為模式。各種類型的人格障礙都是這些參數不同所産生的結果。從這個意義上看,...
評分電子書分享: http://url.cn/JdT4nO。 書名是,Sociopath next door,昨天不造怎麼在網上碰到瞭這本書,就拿來看下去瞭(還不乾正事,快哭瞭都)。寫書作者是個臨床心理醫師(去查瞭下wiki百科,發現她還寫瞭好幾個彆的作品)。本書的內容有講故事的部分,也有較嚴肅的學術說明...
評分羅伯特·黑爾寫道:“很多人都很難應付精神病態者強烈的、不帶感情的或‘掠食性動物’般的凝視。” 反社會人格者想要的是控製他人,也就是要贏,這比其他任何成就(或其他任何人)都更令他們著迷。 控製他人的終極形式也許是奪走那個人的生命,當我們想到反社會人格障礙的反常...
評分羅伯特·黑爾寫道:“很多人都很難應付精神病態者強烈的、不帶感情的或‘掠食性動物’般的凝視。” 反社會人格者想要的是控製他人,也就是要贏,這比其他任何成就(或其他任何人)都更令他們著迷。 控製他人的終極形式也許是奪走那個人的生命,當我們想到反社會人格障礙的反常...
評分首先的大前提,作者認為“有些人就是沒有良心”。 正常人的良心也是會沉睡的,可能因為身體因素,也可能因為權威。 ## 如何識彆沒有良心的人? ## 沒有良心的人喜歡裝可憐。 ## 如果遇上沒有良心的人,怎麼應對? ## 盡量避免和他們的接觸和溝通。(這是作者的方式,但太...
圖書標籤: 心理學 犯罪心理 英文原版 Psychology 心理 英文 反社會人格 英語
身處人口4%沒良知的美帝還是要擦亮眼睛的
評分蠻有意思的,這麼看來高中的時候遇到過兩個這樣的人,一男一女
評分有些東西可以有些是鬍扯…
評分作者的第一人稱描寫張力十足,很清晰地講述瞭良知的概念以及反社會人格是怎麼迴事。
評分very revealing
The Sociopath Next Door 2024 pdf epub mobi 電子書 下載