瑪莎•斯托特博士,任職於哈佛大學醫學院,為美國知名臨床精神病學專傢,也是哈佛醫學院精神科的臨床講師。其他著作還包括《精神健全的奧秘》。目前,定居在美國馬薩諸塞州。
Who is the devil you know?
Is it your lying, cheating ex-husband?
Your sadistic high school gym teacher?
Your boss who loves to humiliate people in meetings?
The colleague who stole your idea and passed it off as her own?
In the pages of The Sociopath Next Door , you will realize that your ex was not just misunderstood. He’s a sociopath. And your boss, teacher, and colleague? They may be sociopaths too.
We are accustomed to think of sociopaths as violent criminals, but in The Sociopath Next Door , Harvard psychologist Martha Stout reveals that a shocking 4 percent of ordinary people—one in twenty-five—has an often undetected mental disorder, the chief symptom of which is that that person possesses no conscience. He or she has no ability whatsoever to feel shame, guilt, or remorse. One in twenty-five everyday Americans, therefore, is secretly a sociopath. They could be your colleague, your neighbor, even family. And they can do literally anything at all and feel absolutely no guilt.
How do we recognize the remorseless? One of their chief characteristics is a kind of glow or charisma that makes sociopaths more charming or interesting than the other people around them. They’re more spontaneous, more intense, more complex, or even sexier than everyone else, making them tricky to identify and leaving us easily seduced. Fundamentally, sociopaths are different because they cannot love. Sociopaths learn early on to show sham emotion, but underneath they are indifferent to others’ suffering. They live to dominate and thrill to win.
The fact is, we all almost certainly know at least one or more sociopaths already. Part of the urgency in reading The Sociopath Next Door is the moment when we suddenly recognize that someone we know—someone we worked for, or were involved with, or voted for—is a sociopath. But what do we do with that knowledge? To arm us against the sociopath, Dr. Stout teaches us to question authority, suspect flattery, and beware the pity play. Above all, she writes, when a sociopath is beckoning, do not join the game.
It is the ruthless versus the rest of us, and The Sociopath Next Door will show you how to recognize and defeat the devil you know.
發表於2024-12-29
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從封麵看就那麼吸引人~~ 打開看到內文就覺得並深深的吸引瞭“好人如何好,壞人如何壞,好人應該如何保護自己不受壞人的傷害” 恩!!這點很重要!
評分首先的大前提,作者認為“有些人就是沒有良心”。 正常人的良心也是會沉睡的,可能因為身體因素,也可能因為權威。 ## 如何識彆沒有良心的人? ## 沒有良心的人喜歡裝可憐。 ## 如果遇上沒有良心的人,怎麼應對? ## 盡量避免和他們的接觸和溝通。(這是作者的方式,但太...
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圖書標籤: 心理學 犯罪心理 英文原版 Psychology 心理 英文 反社會人格 英語
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評分作者的第一人稱描寫張力十足,很清晰地講述瞭良知的概念以及反社會人格是怎麼迴事。
評分這個,還是缺乏帶入感好嘛。
評分有點傳說感
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