玛莎•斯托特博士,任职于哈佛大学医学院,为美国知名临床精神病学专家,也是哈佛医学院精神科的临床讲师。其他著作还包括《精神健全的奥秘》。目前,定居在美国马萨诸塞州。
发表于2025-02-07
The Sociopath Next Door 2025 pdf epub mobi 电子书
首先的大前提,作者认为“有些人就是没有良心”。 正常人的良心也是会沉睡的,可能因为身体因素,也可能因为权威。 ## 如何识别没有良心的人? ## 没有良心的人喜欢装可怜。 ## 如果遇上没有良心的人,怎么应对? ## 尽量避免和他们的接触和沟通。(这是作者的方式,但太...
评分刚看到前沿的时候被吓到,"反社会人格"这个词用的太重了,在我理解“反社会”这个词只能用在那些自杀式袭击者的身上,看到后面才明白“反社会人格”指的不只是这些人。 “反社会人格”在这里应该理解为“没有道德和良知,没有责任感,自私,损人利己,爱拍马屁,谎话连篇”,...
评分对于一个有良心的人,或许你很难想象一个人没有良心会是怎么样的。 其实,我们每天都在接触这样的人。从小到大,在电视里面不是看见过很多坏人吗,坏到让人发指,然后受伤害的总是善良的人,直到最后恶人得到恶报,我们的道德情感得到抒发。但是,我们不会考虑的一个问...
评分刚看到前沿的时候被吓到,"反社会人格"这个词用的太重了,在我理解“反社会”这个词只能用在那些自杀式袭击者的身上,看到后面才明白“反社会人格”指的不只是这些人。 “反社会人格”在这里应该理解为“没有道德和良知,没有责任感,自私,损人利己,爱拍马屁,谎话连篇”,...
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Who is the devil you know?
Is it your lying, cheating ex-husband?
Your sadistic high school gym teacher?
Your boss who loves to humiliate people in meetings?
The colleague who stole your idea and passed it off as her own?
In the pages of The Sociopath Next Door , you will realize that your ex was not just misunderstood. He’s a sociopath. And your boss, teacher, and colleague? They may be sociopaths too.
We are accustomed to think of sociopaths as violent criminals, but in The Sociopath Next Door , Harvard psychologist Martha Stout reveals that a shocking 4 percent of ordinary people—one in twenty-five—has an often undetected mental disorder, the chief symptom of which is that that person possesses no conscience. He or she has no ability whatsoever to feel shame, guilt, or remorse. One in twenty-five everyday Americans, therefore, is secretly a sociopath. They could be your colleague, your neighbor, even family. And they can do literally anything at all and feel absolutely no guilt.
How do we recognize the remorseless? One of their chief characteristics is a kind of glow or charisma that makes sociopaths more charming or interesting than the other people around them. They’re more spontaneous, more intense, more complex, or even sexier than everyone else, making them tricky to identify and leaving us easily seduced. Fundamentally, sociopaths are different because they cannot love. Sociopaths learn early on to show sham emotion, but underneath they are indifferent to others’ suffering. They live to dominate and thrill to win.
The fact is, we all almost certainly know at least one or more sociopaths already. Part of the urgency in reading The Sociopath Next Door is the moment when we suddenly recognize that someone we know—someone we worked for, or were involved with, or voted for—is a sociopath. But what do we do with that knowledge? To arm us against the sociopath, Dr. Stout teaches us to question authority, suspect flattery, and beware the pity play. Above all, she writes, when a sociopath is beckoning, do not join the game.
It is the ruthless versus the rest of us, and The Sociopath Next Door will show you how to recognize and defeat the devil you know.
Grew up with one
评分卖惨博同情这点真的很对
评分very revealing
评分just to see how ppl like me would be defined lol
评分very revealing
The Sociopath Next Door 2025 pdf epub mobi 电子书