It happens every weekend: In a haze of hormones and alcohol, groups of male and female college students meet at a frat party, a bar, or hanging out in a dorm room, and then hook up for an evening of sex first, questions later. As casually as the sexual encounter begins, so it often ends with no strings attached; after all, it was "just a hook up." While a hook up might mean anything from kissing to oral sex to going all the way, the lack of commitment is paramount. Hooking Up is an intimate look at how and why college students get together, what hooking up means to them, and why it has replaced dating on college campuses. In surprisingly frank interviews, students reveal the circumstances that have led to the rise of the booty call and the death of dinner-and-a-movie. Whether it is an expression of post-feminist independence or a form of youthful rebellion, hooking up has become the only game in town on many campuses. In Hooking Up, Kathleen A. Bogle argues that college life itself promotes casual relationships among students on campus. The book sheds light on everything from the differences in what young men and women want from a hook up to why freshmen girls are more likely to hook up than their upper-class sisters and the effects this period has on the sexual and romantic relationships of both men and women after college. Importantly, she shows us that the standards for young men and women are not as different as they used to be, as women talk about "friends with benefits" and "one and done" hook ups. Breaking through many misconceptions about casual sex on college campuses, Hooking Up is the first book to understand the new sexual culture on its own terms, with vivid real-life stories of young men and women as they navigate the newest sexual revolution.
發表於2024-11-26
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圖書標籤: 社會學 社會 教材
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評分對於hook-up culture的描述有點矯枉過正,倒是很符閤中國人對於美國人的schema,有點太過於強調男性在hook up culture裏的強勢地位瞭,雖然是事實,但是這終究還是“一個願打一個願挨”的情況,否則怎麼能夠如此日益強大到直接代替dating culture。
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評分美國校園約炮研究書叢。車軲轆話講瞭個大道理:YP是社會現象,本來是因為“不在乎”而存在,但當今年輕人不YP就不夠酷,沒東西上網說嘴,於是攀比式在校園裏hook up,沒人敢承認自己渴望戀情,本來該帶著輕鬆的心態去做的事,反而成瞭束縛。提到YP最美好的時候是齣門前,想著可能找到一段戀情而激動不已;但是麵對麵沒人敢承認,都裝成酷逼YP狂,完事迴傢後心裏很空虛。
Hooking Up 2024 pdf epub mobi 電子書 下載