邁剋爾·湯普森博士

傑齣的心理學傢，谘詢師，專長為兒童和傢庭問題。在美國各地超過700所學校承擔過心理谘詢師和輔導師的工作，有與兒童和青少年溝通和解決實際問題的豐富經驗。

齣版的男孩養育專著連續76個月名列《紐約時報》暢銷書排行榜親子教育類第一名。

凱瑟琳·奧尼爾·格雷斯

《獨立學校》雜誌前編輯，齣版過多本非虛構類童書，在《華盛頓郵報》開設專欄，為年輕讀者撰寫健康及心理類文章。

勞倫斯·科恩博士

美國心理學傢，專長為兒童遊戲、遊戲治療和親子關係。著有美國國傢親子齣版奬金奬書籍《遊戲力：笑聲，激活孩子天性中的閤作與勇氣》、暢銷傢庭教育書籍《遊戲力2：輕推，幫孩子戰勝童年焦慮》、《親子打鬧遊戲的藝術》

Friends broaden our children’s horizons, share their joys and secrets, and accompany them on their journeys into ever wider worlds. But friends can also gossip and betray, tease and exclude. Children can cause untold suffering, not only for their peers but for parents as well. In this wise and insightful book, psychologist Michael Thompson, Ph.D., and children’s book author Catherine O’Neill Grace, illuminate the crucial and often hidden role that friendship plays in the lives of children from birth through adolescence.

Drawing on fascinating new research as well as their own extensive experience in schools, Thompson and Grace demonstrate that children’s friendships begin early–in infancy–and run exceptionally deep in intensity and loyalty. As children grow, their friendships become more complex and layered but also more emotionally fraught, marked by both extraordinary intimacy and bewildering cruelty. As parents, we watch, and often live through vicariously, the tumult that our children experience as they encounter the “cool” crowd, shifting alliances, bullies, and disloyal best friends.

Best Friends, Worst Enemies brings to life the drama of childhood relationships, guiding parents to a deeper understanding of the motives and meanings of social behavior. Here you will find penetrating discussions of the difference between friendship and popularity, how boys and girls deal in unique ways with intimacy and commitment, whether all kids need a best friend, why cliques form and what you can do about them.

Filled with anecdotes that ring amazingly true to life, Best Friends, Worst Enemies probes the magic and the heartbreak that all children experience with their friends. Parents, teachers, counselors–indeed anyone who cares about children–will find this an eye-opening and wonderfully affirming book.

From the Hardcover edition.