彼得•格雷(Peter Gray)
美国著名发展心理学家,毕生致力于研究教育发展学的生物基础;
波士顿学院(Boston College)心理系研究教授;
著名心理学教科书《心理学》(Psychology) 第五版的作者,是最多长春藤大学指定的教学用书,目前已再版六次;
今日心理学 (Psychology Today)网站热门blog自由学习(Freedom to Learn) 的版主。
经常以儿童心理发展专家的身份应邀担任广播和电视节目的来宾,包括美国国家公共广播电台(NPR)、今日秀节目(The Today Show)、和CNN国际新闻网(CNN International)等;报刊杂志也常引用他的文章,包括《纽约客》(The New Yorker)、《亚特兰大》(The Atlantic)、《男士健康》(Men’s Health)、和《波士顿全球杂志》(the Boston Globe)等。
发表于2024-12-22
Free to Learn 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书
孩子进入小学以后,课业负担日渐沉重。看着小家伙早上背着书包恋恋不舍地离开家门,傍晚欢呼雀跃地走出校门,却又不得不用还很稚嫩的小手拿起笔,端坐在小书桌旁,一本正经地写作业,我的心不自由地沉重起来。说实话,作为一个年轻的家长,我希望孩子还能像以前那样无忧无虑地...
评分英国的温尼科特是全球著名的心理学家,也是一位儿科医生,他非常强调游戏对于人格发展的重要性。当我们在儿童期,我们有更多的生而为人的本真,这份真,随着社会教育的增多,变得越来越稀少。 最能体现“真”的地方,就是游戏空间,是放松的玩耍。一个会玩耍的孩子,无论他长大...
评分我一直鼓励孩子多玩耍,但是我的方法比较随意,尽管我有这样一个理念,但有很多地方考虑得还不够周全,这本书恰恰填补了我的一些“断档”的想法,而且还有了更好的提示。 玩耍的力量对人的影响很大,我觉得甚至可以影响人的一生。对某些事物的爱好和追求,可能在成人之后会一...
评分1. 现在的教育体系,特别是国内从义务教育开始的灌输式、应试教育是违背孩子的天性的。 2. 远古时期(狩猎采集)时的教育更符合个体学习规律,在观察、实践、玩耍中实现技能、人际交往等的提高。从农耕开始,自由学习开始衰落、到封建社会的宗教为了控制而办学,到现代强制义务...
评分1. 现在的教育体系,特别是国内从义务教育开始的灌输式、应试教育是违背孩子的天性的。 2. 远古时期(狩猎采集)时的教育更符合个体学习规律,在观察、实践、玩耍中实现技能、人际交往等的提高。从农耕开始,自由学习开始衰落、到封建社会的宗教为了控制而办学,到现代强制义务...
图书标签: 教育 心理学 learning 父母 学习 parenting 思维 play
What is it with kids these days? They can't sit still - but obesity is on the rise. Their days are filled with activity - but more often than not, they're bored and restless. Childhood should be a time of unbridled joy, play, and learning. Instead, we have pushed our children into an abnormal environment, where they are expected to spend the greater part of their day under adult direction, sitting at desks and taking tests. We call this imprisonment schooling. What free time they have we fill with supervised instruction: team sports, tutoring, homework. As a result, we are heading toward an unprecedented crisis, with skyrocketing rates of childhood anxiety, depression, and suicide. As developmental psychologist Peter Gray explains, children come into this world burning to learn, but the enduring lesson of school is that learning is work, to be avoided when possible. In "Free to Learn", Gray shows that we can reverse the harmful effects of modern schooling and promote learning, self-reliance, and curiosity in our kids by returning to our hunter-gatherer roots. School is an artificial construct, a relatively recent invention in our evolutionary history which arose with the development of agriculture. But as Gray points out, children's minds and their natural instincts to learn were shaped when humans were living as hunter-gatherers. In hunter-gatherer societies children were left to play freely - and over time they absorbed the practical skills they needed to survive by watching their elders, and developed social skills by having to negotiate with other children while playing. The counter-cultural movement known as "unschooling" is growing as more and more parents and teachers are coming to realize that anxiety and competition in the classroom inhibit learning; rather, self-chosen and self-directed play are what engage the mind as effective learning tools. As Gray argues, education and learning should call upon the core aspects of our human nature - curiosity, playfulness, and sociability - instead of inhibiting them. A brave, counterintuitive proposal for freeing our children from the shackles of the curiosity-killing institution we call school, "Free to Learn" shows that it's time to stop asking what's wrong with our children, and start asking what's wrong with the system.
给你的孩子一条自由的路
评分不出意外是本年度读(实际是听的)过的最后一本书了。其间我想找找其中文版,搜来搜去搜不到,后来百度了才知道其中文译名是《玩耍精神》,简直无比完美传神的翻译。《园丁与木匠》告诉我们6岁前孩子的唯一任务就是“玩”,而这本书告诉我们,“玩”对孩子来说是一种持续的事业,孩子从玩儿中学到各种各样的东西,而这些东西对他们的将来会产生极大的影响。可惜的是,在玩中学到的这些东西,成年人看不到或者感知不明显。而进名校,考高分才是触手可得的实惠,自然会赢得更高的投入权重。本书中的Sudbury Valley School的例子令人震撼,这种极端的“成年人靠边站”的模式成为了一种“自我学习”理论的最强有力的证据。本书对今天的父母能有什么启发呢?是否至少能避免“提前学习与年龄脱节的所有东西”?我不乐观。
评分给你的孩子一条自由的路
评分给你的孩子一条自由的路
评分不出意外是本年度读(实际是听的)过的最后一本书了。其间我想找找其中文版,搜来搜去搜不到,后来百度了才知道其中文译名是《玩耍精神》,简直无比完美传神的翻译。《园丁与木匠》告诉我们6岁前孩子的唯一任务就是“玩”,而这本书告诉我们,“玩”对孩子来说是一种持续的事业,孩子从玩儿中学到各种各样的东西,而这些东西对他们的将来会产生极大的影响。可惜的是,在玩中学到的这些东西,成年人看不到或者感知不明显。而进名校,考高分才是触手可得的实惠,自然会赢得更高的投入权重。本书中的Sudbury Valley School的例子令人震撼,这种极端的“成年人靠边站”的模式成为了一种“自我学习”理论的最强有力的证据。本书对今天的父母能有什么启发呢?是否至少能避免“提前学习与年龄脱节的所有东西”?我不乐观。
Free to Learn 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书