Jennifer Senior, a contributing editor at New York magazine, says she sees lot of mothers second-guessing themselves. She wants to create bumper stickers for women that say: "I Am The Standard."
发表于2024-12-22
All Joy and No Fun 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书
这本书一开头,作者就用沙哑的毫不attractive 的声音告诉了大家: 这本书不是self help book , 听了不会对你的parenting 有任何帮助。所以,我就决定听下去。 诚不我欺啊!还真的是一点儿帮助都木有。是一章又一章的大实话,更像是一部关于parenting 的颇为miserable 的documen...
评分刚拿到这本书时我以为这又是一本畅销的育儿书,作者会指导家长如何让孩子睡整夜觉等等。看着看着我发现这的确不是一本育儿书,正如作者所言这是一本写给成人的书,是一本社会科学书。作者通过观察儿童及其家庭给读者全面展现了美国中产阶级的育儿现状,并且引经据典地分析现代...
评分这本书一开头,作者就用沙哑的毫不attractive 的声音告诉了大家: 这本书不是self help book , 听了不会对你的parenting 有任何帮助。所以,我就决定听下去。 诚不我欺啊!还真的是一点儿帮助都木有。是一章又一章的大实话,更像是一部关于parenting 的颇为miserable 的documen...
评分可能当妈的感受和楼上的准妈还是有区别的吧。这本书不是方法论,育儿市场也不缺少方法论,它是一碗安慰的鸡汤,让你知道全天下即使是美帝国主义的父母也都一样,让你知道你不是在孤军奋战,微博妈妈评价“简直想抱着作者大腿哭”,它能在美国图书馆排着长队,能长居榜首不是虚...
评分刚拿到这本书时我以为这又是一本畅销的育儿书,作者会指导家长如何让孩子睡整夜觉等等。看着看着我发现这的确不是一本育儿书,正如作者所言这是一本写给成人的书,是一本社会科学书。作者通过观察儿童及其家庭给读者全面展现了美国中产阶级的育儿现状,并且引经据典地分析现代...
图书标签: 育儿 教育 家庭 心理学 情感和家庭 原版 英文 社会
There's no shortage of books about how parents affect their children's lives, but what about vice versa? That's what New York Magazine contributing editor and mother Jennifer Senior sets out to investigate in All Joy and No Fun, a book about parental well-being.
"We assume that children will improve our happiness," Senior says, "That's why babies are called bundles of joy. But what's so interesting is that one of the most robust findings in the social sciences — and it's been this way for about 50 years — is that children do not improve their parents' happiness."
社会科学
评分不是我喜欢的风格,实例和理论交叉,看的头疼。就有一点收获,老美养孩子也很舍得花钱。
评分Lots of stunning facts about raising children, and it is comforting to know that millions of parents out there are going through the same thing, with the same angst, uncertainty, yet determination and most of all, love, to raise the kids. Maybe it is going to be like what they say, "the kids are going to be alright..."
评分刚开始还安慰自己,我没孩子,但是了解下总不是坏事嘛。而且也在observe身边的房东姐姐带小孩,对照起来应该很有意思。直到我在车里听到”we middle class Americans”简直乐坏,我既不是middle class也不是Americans,操着什么太平洋的心呀???? 说起来有很多德州和中国移民的例子哎~(现在的我认为)我会强迫我小孩学习滑冰和散打的……其他的应该就放羊了。
评分社会科学
All Joy and No Fun 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书