Where We Going, Daddy?

让-路易•傅尼叶（Jean-Louis Fournier）大学时修习古典文学，本应成为严肃学者的他，后来却成了法国知名作家及电视剧编导。他曾获得多项国际艺术电影大奖，从一九九二年起，傅尼叶开始文字创作，作品逾二十部，包含散文、小说、剧本，他幽默诙谐的笔法，令众多法国读者为之着迷。虽然经常受邀上媒体谈论作品，但关于自己的两个孩子，一直是傅尼叶避言谈起的话题。直到他七十岁，也就是二〇〇八年，他才出版《爸爸，我们去哪儿？》，首度写出身为两个残障儿父亲的心声。他说：“过去不提，不是因为怕丢脸、怕被人用异样眼光看待，而是无法面对说了之后难以承受的痛楚。”《爸爸，我们去哪儿？》一出版，立即在法国引起热烈的回响，在销售量和排行榜上都创下耀眼的佳绩。傅尼叶的句句文字抚慰了许多读者，不仅仅只是同为残障儿的父母，更告诉大家即使有再痛苦的遭遇，还是能够有勇气地笑着活下去。有评论家说：或许上帝不曾善待傅尼叶的孩子，但这部作品之于傅尼叶，甚至所有的读者，都是我们面对生命困境时最好的礼物。

出版者:Other Press

作者:Jean-Louis Fournier

页数:128

译者:Adriana Hunter

出版时间:2010-5-11

价格:USD 12.00

装帧:Paperback

isbn号码:9781590513385

图书标签:Non-Fiction2014

Jean-Louis Fournier did not expect to have a disabled child. He certainly did not expect to have two. But that is precisely what happened to this wry French humorist, and his attempts to live and cope with his Mathieu and Thomas, both facing extremely debilitating physical and mental challenges, is the subject of this brave and heartbreaking book. Fournier recalls the life he imagined having with his sons—but his boys will never really grow up, and he mourns the loss of every memory he thought he’d have.

Though a devoted father, he does not shy away from exploring the limits of his love, the countless times he is filled with frustration and disappointment with no relief in sight. Mathieu and Thomas can barely communicate, and each in turn repeats learned phrases, such as “Where we going, Daddy?” (a favorite in the car) in what feels to

Fournier to be an eternal loop.

In WhereWe Going, Daddy? Fournier reveals everything, and that is perhaps his most remarkable quality. He does not hide behind a mask of cliché, but gives voice to the darkness that comes with disability, and the rare moments of light. Through short, powerful vignettes Jean-Louis manages his grief with cynicism and humor. For parents of disabled children, this book will offer some relief from the courage they must garner every day, a chance to let down their guard, laugh at themselves, and embrace even the ugly emotions they feel. For the rest of us, it’s an unsettling and heartfelt glimpse into an otherwise unimaginable life.

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