Amir Levine, M.D. is an adult, child, and adolescent psychiatrist and neuroscientist. He graduated from the residency program at New York Presbyterian Hospital/Columbia University and for the past few years Amir has been conducting neuroscience research at Columbia under the mentorship of Nobel Prize Laureate Eric Kandel. Amir also has a passion for working with patients and it is in this context, while working with mothers and children in a therapeutic nursery, that he first discovered the power of attachment theory. His clinical work together with his deep understanding of the brain from a neuroscientist's perspective contribute to his appreciation of attachment theory and its remarkable effectiveness in helping to heal patients. Amir lives in New York City. Rachel Heller, M.A. studied at Columbia University with some of the most prominent scholars in the field of social psychology. She now works with families and couples as a psychologist in private practice. Rachel lives in Israel.
发表于2025-02-07
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为什么年龄这么大了还找不到合适的对象?难道是自己没有魅力吗?难道是自己很差劲,其实都不一定是真正的原因。还是性格问题啊。 看了这本书,觉得自己是回避型的依恋风格,但是上一段感情则是焦虑性的依恋的风格。夏斌也是回避型的。怪不得我们不能在一起太痛苦了。如何去寻找...
评分此书对我最大的帮助就是让我知道了自己的恋爱性格,很不幸我就是最最不好的第三种恋爱风格。这也能很好地解释我在生活中为什么总是喜欢逃避感情。每段感情都是那么短暂,我总是讨厌亲密接触害怕和恋人靠的太近我一直以为这是我自己的问题。原来也有很多人和我一样。但是此书最...
评分学习《读懂恋人心》一共用了5小时35分钟。与往常不同的是,这一回读书的同时我加入了和他人的讨论,让我对这本书的理解发生了一些变化。虽然和我讨论的伙伴并没有读过这本书,但讨论中我发现提升了我的三点能力: 1.结合自己对书的理解的表述能力 2.讨论发现更多的角度看问题的...
评分这书真的很好。这本书读到一半的时候,我心里就已经有了这样一个判断。这个判断不是武断,而是果断。当刚刚拿到这本书的时候,我并没有认为此书会有多么出色,也对本书的题材不是特别感兴趣。因为作为一个已婚人士,我自认为过得还算幸福,没有必要去阅读此类有关两性情感话题...
评分首发于豆瓣,禁止免费转载。 汉化注:原先看的是英文版;大部分咨询,练习都是英文做的。所以写本文的时候参杂了很多英文原词,一方面是方便我写,另一方便是因为不知道对应的汉语。后来看了中文的一些材料,大概能够对上翻译了,所以今天把文中大部分英文词替换掉,方便更多人...
图书标签: 心理学 两性关系 情感 英文原版 关系 亲密关系 attached Relationship
We rely on science to tell us everything from what to eat to when and how long to exercise, but what about relationships? Is there a scientific explanation for why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle? According to psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, the answer is a resounding "yes." In "Attached," Levine and Heller reveal how an understanding of adult attachment-the most advanced relationship science in existence today-can help us find and sustain love. Pioneered by psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950s, the field of attachment posits that each of us behaves in relationships in one of three distinct ways:
*Anxious people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner's ability to love them back
*Avoidant people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness.
*Secure people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving. In this book Levine and Heller guide readers in determining what attachment style they and their mate (or potential mate) follow, offering a road map for building stronger, more fulfilling connections with the people they love.
现代心理学救人于水火系列。摊呀推荐的!
评分know yourself~
评分真是造福人类的书和作者啊
评分Audiobook下载:百度云网盘。"I'm an avoidant"
评分yea... definitely an avoidant :/ puppy on the other hand, is so secure. learn from him.
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