Amir Levine, M.D. is an adult, child, and adolescent psychiatrist and neuroscientist. He graduated from the residency program at New York Presbyterian Hospital/Columbia University and for the past few years Amir has been conducting neuroscience research at Columbia under the mentorship of Nobel Prize Laureate Eric Kandel. Amir also has a passion for working with patients and it is in this context, while working with mothers and children in a therapeutic nursery, that he first discovered the power of attachment theory. His clinical work together with his deep understanding of the brain from a neuroscientist's perspective contribute to his appreciation of attachment theory and its remarkable effectiveness in helping to heal patients. Amir lives in New York City. Rachel Heller, M.A. studied at Columbia University with some of the most prominent scholars in the field of social psychology. She now works with families and couples as a psychologist in private practice. Rachel lives in Israel.
We rely on science to tell us everything from what to eat to when and how long to exercise, but what about relationships? Is there a scientific explanation for why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle? According to psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, the answer is a resounding "yes." In "Attached," Levine and Heller reveal how an understanding of adult attachment-the most advanced relationship science in existence today-can help us find and sustain love. Pioneered by psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950s, the field of attachment posits that each of us behaves in relationships in one of three distinct ways:
*Anxious people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner's ability to love them back
*Avoidant people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness.
*Secure people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving. In this book Levine and Heller guide readers in determining what attachment style they and their mate (or potential mate) follow, offering a road map for building stronger, more fulfilling connections with the people they love.
發表於2024-12-22
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這是一本很好的戀愛心理學書,強烈建議大傢讀一下,本書講解瞭三種戀愛風格,分析細緻到位,對戀愛或將戀愛的人們有很好的指導作用,讀這本書後對自己和戀人的感情會有更好的理解,也有利於我們更好的把握愛情,生活的更加幸福快樂!!
評分此書對我最大的幫助就是讓我知道瞭自己的戀愛性格,很不幸我就是最最不好的第三種戀愛風格。這也能很好地解釋我在生活中為什麼總是喜歡逃避感情。每段感情都是那麼短暫,我總是討厭親密接觸害怕和戀人靠的太近我一直以為這是我自己的問題。原來也有很多人和我一樣。但是此書最...
評分這書真的很好。這本書讀到一半的時候,我心裏就已經有瞭這樣一個判斷。這個判斷不是武斷,而是果斷。當剛剛拿到這本書的時候,我並沒有認為此書會有多麼齣色,也對本書的題材不是特彆感興趣。因為作為一個已婚人士,我自認為過得還算幸福,沒有必要去閱讀此類有關兩性情感話題...
評分首發於豆瓣,禁止免費轉載。 漢化注:原先看的是英文版;大部分谘詢,練習都是英文做的。所以寫本文的時候參雜瞭很多英文原詞,一方麵是方便我寫,另一方便是因為不知道對應的漢語。後來看瞭中文的一些材料,大概能夠對上翻譯瞭,所以今天把文中大部分英文詞替換掉,方便更多人...
評分Attachment styles Secure: comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving Anxious: crave intimacy, are often preoccupied with their relationships, and tend to worry about their partner’s ability to love them back Avoidant: equate intimacy with a ...
圖書標籤: 心理學 兩性關係 情感 英文原版 關係 親密關係 attached Relationship
這書對以前的我估計挺有幫助的,不過現在聽下來覺得沒什麼新知識。
評分還不錯,有所幫助,有所收獲
評分真是造福人類的書和作者啊
評分心理類書籍一大作用便是幫助人們瞭解自己瞭解他人,很多時候問題都在於並不理解對方的行為、齣發點、心理過程,多一份理解或許就是多一份包容的可能,倒也並不一定就是為瞭解決問題。況且很多時候問題其實就隻是:你不理解我我不理解你,不是我不想理解你而是我不知道怎麼用我自己的方式角度來理解你。
評分know yourself~
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