Girls & Sex

出版者:Harper

作者:Peggy Orenstein

页数:320

出版时间:2016-3-29

价格:USD 26.99

装帧:Hardcover

isbn号码:9780062209726

图书标签:女性主义社会学替你读书替你读书-塔主English英文原版--nonfiction°崔冕老师替你读书英文原版

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Bestselling journalist Orenstein follows up Cinderella Ate My Daughter with a look at what happens when the little princess hits puberty. The result is an eye-opening, sometimes horrifying look at sex for today’s girls and young adults. Through frank interviews, research, and school visits, Orenstein reveals that, on average, young women are engaging in sexual contact earlier than ever, in more varied ways, and reporting more coercion and less satisfaction than their male counterparts. She cuts through many of the prickly topics associated with girls’ sexuality in contemporary culture, including purity debates, hook-up culture, arguments about what girls wear, rape and consent on college campuses, the problem of porn, and what kind of sex education actually works. She looks briefly at gender fluidity and touches on the concerns of LGBTQ young women. Orenstein draws powerful, humane portraits of her interview subjects, self-reliant young women who find themselves trapped by sexist stereotypes about women’s bodies and women’s pleasure. In this smart, earnest, and timely assessment, Orenstein urges frank, open communication among trusted adults and curious teens, declaring it the best way to encourage girls and boys to make safe, healthy decisions that “end in joy and honor rather than regret, guilt, or shame” and achieve “intimate justice.” (Mar.)

读后感

这本书的作者是个记者，也是妈妈，还是女权主义者。她的书主要以访谈为主，关于不同种族女孩子对性的看法等，是为青春期女孩子以及她们的家长所写。我比较欣赏80年代美国的女孩子对自己的个人要求：To think before speaking. To be self-restrained in conversations and acti...  

以前人们总是跟我说，出门啊一定要注意安全要照顾好自己，女生要自爱！我以前觉得这些话没什么，习以为常，但是后来看到一篇文章说:为什么你要叫我女儿保护好自己而不是教育你儿子不出去伤害别人？女生总是要有18般武艺，而男生也很少被提及。经济文化一直在进步，可是人们对于...  

用户评价

读之前以为，以后若有女儿的话会操心许多。翻看完毕，里头的故事并无新意。除了青春期美国女孩的对二垒三垒的定义下限比较低，想法似乎和现在的90 00后趋同。大篇幅花在了oral sex和性侵的解读，overly excessive?

new landscape

听书所得，物化，出卖性感。

豐富了我的詞彙 體驗一下美國社會形態和性態度

It's a time when sexually active girls are shamed as "slut" and girls abstain from sex were labeled as "prudes". Over the past decades, we've seen progress in public realm, but why haven't things changed in private one? What shall we do to make a difference, for us, and for our next generation? 真的当代当地，男女生都值得读读这本书。