Girls & Sex

出版者:Harper

作者:Peggy Orenstein

页数:320

出版时间:2016-3-29

价格:USD 26.99

装帧:Hardcover

isbn号码:9780062209726

图书标签:女性主义社会学替你读书替你读书-塔主English英文原版--nonfiction°崔冕老师替你读书英文原版

Bestselling journalist Orenstein follows up Cinderella Ate My Daughter with a look at what happens when the little princess hits puberty. The result is an eye-opening, sometimes horrifying look at sex for today’s girls and young adults. Through frank interviews, research, and school visits, Orenstein reveals that, on average, young women are engaging in sexual contact earlier than ever, in more varied ways, and reporting more coercion and less satisfaction than their male counterparts. She cuts through many of the prickly topics associated with girls’ sexuality in contemporary culture, including purity debates, hook-up culture, arguments about what girls wear, rape and consent on college campuses, the problem of porn, and what kind of sex education actually works. She looks briefly at gender fluidity and touches on the concerns of LGBTQ young women. Orenstein draws powerful, humane portraits of her interview subjects, self-reliant young women who find themselves trapped by sexist stereotypes about women’s bodies and women’s pleasure. In this smart, earnest, and timely assessment, Orenstein urges frank, open communication among trusted adults and curious teens, declaring it the best way to encourage girls and boys to make safe, healthy decisions that “end in joy and honor rather than regret, guilt, or shame” and achieve “intimate justice.” (Mar.)

读后感

在追求男女平等的今天，女孩如何不被物化为一个物件？如何保护自己？是女性应该考虑的问题。 错过晚间互动环节，还是爬楼翻看了小伙伴们的讨论，内容很精彩，里面有一些我听都没听过的事情，感觉很不可思议，在倡导男女平等已经辣么多年的情况下，种种陋习还是真正存在的，生男...  

https://athenacool.wordpress.com/2020/01/31/girls-sex%e3%80%81boys-sex/ Girls & Sex: Navigating the Complicated New Landscape 女孩与性 Peggy Orenstein / Harper / 2016-3 Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hookups, Love, Porn, Consent, and Navigating the New Ma...  

“What are you crying for?”男性也许永远不会理解女性面对性的无助。男女平等不意味着男女是相同的，在涉及到性的事件中，女性总是比较吃亏，而已经吃亏的女性承受的社会舆论压力也更大。受伤的人承受更大的耻辱，表明对女性的歧视根植在每个人心底，包括男人和女人，即使我...  

Hot (性感) 意义被扭曲 eg. Maroon 5 <animal> "hunt you down"(猎到你) Fifty Shades of Grey (五十度灰 金.卡戴珊 出卖自己的隐私和 sex video来获取名声导致了年轻女孩们对成名方式对错误看法，甚至认为sex is a show. 1892的采访 To think before speaking (三思而后...  

用户评价

这本书写在美国，想法已经算是相当激进的，虽然在欧洲的角度来看其实是非常普通正常的教育方式，但让人理解了美国青少年是在什么环境下长大的。

警惕商业社会里的“贩卖性感”，社会越发展，物化女性的观念仍然没有改变，在这种贩卖性感下，为了博得关注，物化女性的可能是女性自己。

女性视角

听书所得，物化，出卖性感。

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