Bestselling journalist Orenstein follows up Cinderella Ate My Daughter with a look at what happens when the little princess hits puberty. The result is an eye-opening, sometimes horrifying look at sex for today’s girls and young adults. Through frank interviews, research, and school visits, Orenstein reveals that, on average, young women are engaging in sexual contact earlier than ever, in more varied ways, and reporting more coercion and less satisfaction than their male counterparts. She cuts through many of the prickly topics associated with girls’ sexuality in contemporary culture, including purity debates, hook-up culture, arguments about what girls wear, rape and consent on college campuses, the problem of porn, and what kind of sex education actually works. She looks briefly at gender fluidity and touches on the concerns of LGBTQ young women. Orenstein draws powerful, humane portraits of her interview subjects, self-reliant young women who find themselves trapped by sexist stereotypes about women’s bodies and women’s pleasure. In this smart, earnest, and timely assessment, Orenstein urges frank, open communication among trusted adults and curious teens, declaring it the best way to encourage girls and boys to make safe, healthy decisions that “end in joy and honor rather than regret, guilt, or shame” and achieve “intimate justice.” (Mar.)
發表於2024-06-18
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以前人們總是跟我說,齣門啊一定要注意安全要照顧好自己,女生要自愛!我以前覺得這些話沒什麼,習以為常,但是後來看到一篇文章說:為什麼你要叫我女兒保護好自己而不是教育你兒子不齣去傷害彆人?女生總是要有18般武藝,而男生也很少被提及。經濟文化一直在進步,可是人們對於...
評分https://athenacool.wordpress.com/2020/01/31/girls-sex%e3%80%81boys-sex/ Girls & Sex: Navigating the Complicated New Landscape 女孩與性 Peggy Orenstein / Harper / 2016-3 Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hookups, Love, Porn, Consent, and Navigating the New Ma...
評分 評分 評分女孩和性。在我國,性這個話題一直是被避而不談的,而女孩和性這個話題看起來似乎更加讓人避之不及,但這樣就真的好嗎?隨著網絡的普及,我們看到瞭很多之前被掩蓋的事情,有多少小女孩正是因為沒有接觸過性教育,導緻連自己被侵犯的時候都沒意識到這種行為到以為著什麼。所以...
圖書標籤: 女性主義 社會學 替你讀書 替你讀書-塔主 English 英文原版--nonfiction° 崔冕老師替你讀書 英文原版
自己用不上瞭,算不上開捲有益
評分聽書所得,物化,齣賣性感。
評分采訪有點贅述,話語的堆積。對“壘”觀點已經不新。書中最後倡導荷蘭性教育經驗然而這種教育是建立一定的社會基礎上如父母的教育水平;觀念開放程度等;對美國來說有一定的可比性;於中國而言,要求父母cooperative,open-minded幾乎不現實,中國性教育道阻且長。但,首先無論男女都要尊重自己尊重對方。
評分社會推崇的主流「性感」vs自己想成為的人 1. 第一次: 保證安全 最私人 最不該由他人乾預 2. 女人在勾搭文化中往往既不是受益者, 也不是受害者, 她們隻是對勾搭抱有錯誤的幻想 3. 如果被侵害瞭, 一定不要保持沉默 4. 性愛: 快樂/自尊/自愛vs後悔/內疚/羞恥 5. 性和人生的其他事情一樣, 需要獨立主動的思考, 自己做齣決定, 並且為後果負責
評分警惕商業社會裏的“販賣性感”,社會越發展,物化女性的觀念仍然沒有改變,在這種販賣性感下,為瞭博得關注,物化女性的可能是女性自己。
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