Bestselling journalist Orenstein follows up Cinderella Ate My Daughter with a look at what happens when the little princess hits puberty. The result is an eye-opening, sometimes horrifying look at sex for today’s girls and young adults. Through frank interviews, research, and school visits, Orenstein reveals that, on average, young women are engaging in sexual contact earlier than ever, in more varied ways, and reporting more coercion and less satisfaction than their male counterparts. She cuts through many of the prickly topics associated with girls’ sexuality in contemporary culture, including purity debates, hook-up culture, arguments about what girls wear, rape and consent on college campuses, the problem of porn, and what kind of sex education actually works. She looks briefly at gender fluidity and touches on the concerns of LGBTQ young women. Orenstein draws powerful, humane portraits of her interview subjects, self-reliant young women who find themselves trapped by sexist stereotypes about women’s bodies and women’s pleasure. In this smart, earnest, and timely assessment, Orenstein urges frank, open communication among trusted adults and curious teens, declaring it the best way to encourage girls and boys to make safe, healthy decisions that “end in joy and honor rather than regret, guilt, or shame” and achieve “intimate justice.” (Mar.)
發表於2024-11-25
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這本書是一個做記者的媽媽想要給自己進入青春期的女兒而寫的書。作者主要通過70多個案例來說明現在女孩麵臨的問題以及這些問題背後的原因和解決方法。 1.美國校園存在的問題 (1)過度強調貞操,結果其他節操掉瞭一地。 (2)學校教育隻講裏麵,不講精子變為受精卵。 (3)隻講生理不...
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評分“What are you crying for?”男性也許永遠不會理解女性麵對性的無助。男女平等不意味著男女是相同的,在涉及到性的事件中,女性總是比較吃虧,而已經吃虧的女性承受的社會輿論壓力也更大。受傷的人承受更大的恥辱,錶明對女性的歧視根植在每個人心底,包括男人和女人,即使我...
評分 評分想到一句話 " your naked body should only belong to those who fall in love with you naked soul " 女孩子要愛惜自己的身體,所謂的要自尊自愛 男孩子也要學會尊重女性,大傢都是獨立的個體 男性女性都要懂得 responsibilities of intimacy—— "親密的責任"
圖書標籤: 女性主義 社會學 替你讀書 替你讀書-塔主 English 英文原版--nonfiction° 崔冕老師替你讀書 英文原版
讀完這本書,大驚失色。問題都擺齣來瞭,解決問題的辦法呢?
評分采訪有點贅述,話語的堆積。對“壘”觀點已經不新。書中最後倡導荷蘭性教育經驗然而這種教育是建立一定的社會基礎上如父母的教育水平;觀念開放程度等;對美國來說有一定的可比性;於中國而言,要求父母cooperative,open-minded幾乎不現實,中國性教育道阻且長。但,首先無論男女都要尊重自己尊重對方。
評分年紀輕輕就把自己當破鞋還說得不到“真愛”——15到20歲這個階段的女性對“性”的追求顯然大過“愛”,祝你們都能找到接盤的老實人
評分豐富瞭我的詞彙 體驗一下美國社會形態和性態度
評分boys & sex的前篇,好看。 這一代的少女們,尤其是作者所在的西海岸,intellectually 都是女權主義,說起理論來一套套的。 但是一說到身體和性,分分鍾打迴無知少女,受害者角色,不是說行為上,而是認知上。文明和觀念在進步進步,性教育卻遲遲滯後。要和孩子談性,更要自己瞭解性,享受身體,推倒腦中的高牆,填補知識空白。
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