发表于2025-04-10
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck 2025 pdf epub mobi 电子书
去加州的路上kindle坏了,只得在机场的书店里寻觅,遇见这本书。标题很抓人,前几章也写得很不错,后几章不至于说高开低走,但也的确只是一般。 鸡汤书的特点就是每一句话都是对的,每一句话如果放在不一样的情境中,也可以是错的。说到底是读者与作者的共鸣包裹成了人生哲理的...
评分 评分一本通篇脏话的书,宣扬的却是老派而朴实的价值观和生活态度。反对快乐至上,反对脆弱的positive thinking,反对自我中心。经济的发展物质生活突飞猛进的改善带来的却是快感阙值的不断上升,欲壑难填,焦躁不安。也许接受现实生活的不美好,接受自己只是普遍规律的一部分,正视...
评分正如作者在后记(鸣谢)中所说的那样,这本书素材多而且凌乱,如果没有详细的整理的话,很难让人理解。 通过通读这本书,我觉得马克•曼森这个作者主要有以下几个观点:把控情绪;要有一个良好的价值观;要主动进行作为;不要怕犯错,应当及时的纠正犯下的错误;要有边界感;...
评分图书标签: 英文原版 个人成长 self-help 个人管理 心理学 思考方法 思维 English
In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.
For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn’t sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is—a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let’s-all-feel-good mindset that has infected modern society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.
Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited—"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.
There are only so many things we can give a f**k about so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real-talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives.
鸡汤,凌乱分散,也有一两口好的:a. Happiness is a problem: life is full of sufferings and setbacks. It's ok to be unhappy and to fall from time to time; b. Take responsibility for everything in your life: with greater responsibilty, comes greater power; c. Freedom through commitment and only give a f*ck about the few things that really matters: less is more.
评分书的前半部分让人觉得醍醐灌顶,处处都是金句,恨不得把每一段都摘抄下来。随着网络的发展,在各种社交媒体里,人人都是那么成功耀眼,愈发显得自己失败渺小。可谁又会把自己的烦心事儿公布于众呢? 与其哀怨自己的不完美,不如真诚的接受自己。Do something.
评分Clearly written by a manwhore
评分Giving too many fucks makes you mentally ill, blah blah blah....
评分比预期的有趣,概括一下:挑重要的事给屎,给心甘情愿的屎,给更有意义的屎。
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck 2025 pdf epub mobi 电子书