In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.
For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn’t sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is—a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let’s-all-feel-good mindset that has infected modern society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.
Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited—"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.
There are only so many things we can give a f**k about so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real-talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives.
一本通篇髒話的書,宣揚的卻是老派而樸實的價值觀和生活態度。反對快樂至上,反對脆弱的positive thinking,反對自我中心。經濟的發展物質生活突飛猛進的改善帶來的卻是快感闕值的不斷上升,欲壑難填,焦躁不安。也許接受現實生活的不美好,接受自己隻是普遍規律的一部分,正視...
評分 評分 評分很多時候麵對問題我們都會逃避。逃避的根本來我們自於對’不幸‘的恐懼。然而何為‘不幸’?如果將媒體或者大眾渲染的人生觀,不經過思考,盲目加之於自己身上,那麼這可能就是真的不幸。但是不會有人教會於我們,什麼是對的,什麼的是錯,什麼是好的,什麼是壞的。我們需要的...
評分The third book that I read in English this year ✌️and now just a trial to record my feelings and thoughts in English. At the end of the book he mentioned death, somehow it just reminds me to think this question: what if I’d die tomorrow? What if I’d...
前麵幾章雞湯味道醇厚,越到後麵越是味精摻水。
评分雞湯,淩亂分散,也有一兩口好的:a. Happiness is a problem: life is full of sufferings and setbacks. It's ok to be unhappy and to fall from time to time; b. Take responsibility for everything in your life: with greater responsibilty, comes greater power; c. Freedom through commitment and only give a f*ck about the few things that really matters: less is more.
评分Bukowski還活著的話會暴打這位作者我覺得
评分書中很多觀點的背後是東方哲學,而東方人往往談得過於深奧、無趣、復雜,讓人望而卻步。這本書不僅有趣,而且作者的哲學和邏輯思維非常清晰。我們的確需要認真思考行動背後的真實動機,誠實地認識和接受自己、接受生活本質性的苦痛。每一天比前一天少一些錯誤,為自己的生命負責。
评分“Choose your struggle.” 美式毒雞湯。
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