Lori Gottlieb is a psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author who writes The Atlantic's weekly "Dear Therapist" advice column. A contributing editor at The Atlantic, she also writes regularly for The New York Times, and has appeared on The Today Show, Good Morning America, CBS This Morning, CNN, and NPR. Learn more at LoriGottlieb.com or by following her @LoriGottlieb1 on Twitter.
发表于2024-11-02
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书
上个月去LA遇到了好久不见的前同事和她男友。吃饭时候聊到工作压力,我提到自己在找合适的心理咨询师。他们俩一致回应,啊?你为什么要找心理咨询师?言下之意是,你精神有问题吗? 我一时有点尴尬,本以为自己对这个话题已经非常开放,但面对他们俩的眼神和表情,还是佯装淡定...
评分一个母亲生下唐氏儿以后写了一篇文章:“这事儿吧,就像我满心欢喜准备去活色生香的意大利,结果飞机到了我才发现,我被扔到了荷兰,而且,还走不了了。” 一个自闭儿童的母亲把这段话送给了她刚渡完蜜月就发现自己得了癌症的好朋友。 我的第一反应就是,荷兰哪儿有那么惨?!...
评分在心里最失落的几周,听完了这本书。听着跟自己相似的故事,被具有同情心的描述出来,很治愈。那些没有经历过的、或感觉不平衡的事情,也能充满同情心。把心里那些汹涌的、无处安放的关于爱、亲情、和死亡的情绪,备剖析出来然后又温柔对待。“But part of getting to know you...
评分 评分敲下标题,犹豫了一下,加上了“尝试”:毕竟这是一个鱼龙混杂的行业,毕竟我自己确实没有看过心理咨询师,毕竟哪怕是合格的心理咨询师,也需要有一定程度的personality match to make it click. 其实我想表达的是一个更加普世的观点:人人都需要尝试being selfaware. 是的,我...
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One day, Lori Gottlieb is a therapist who helps patients in her Los Angeles practice. The next, a crisis causes her world to come crashing down. Enter Wendell, the quirky but seasoned therapist in whose office she suddenly lands. With his balding head, cardigan, and khakis, he seems to have come straight from Therapist Central Casting. Yet he will turn out to be anything but.
As Gottlieb explores the inner chambers of her patients' lives -- a self-absorbed Hollywood producer, a young newlywed diagnosed with a terminal illness, a senior citizen threatening to end her life on her birthday if nothing gets better, and a twenty-something who can't stop hooking up with the wrong guys -- she finds that the questions they are struggling with are the very ones she is now bringing to Wendell.
With startling wisdom and humor, Gottlieb invites us into her world as both clinician and patient, examining the truths and fictions we tell ourselves and others as we teeter on the tightrope between love and desire, meaning and mortality, guilt and redemption, terror and courage, hope and change.
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone is revolutionary in its candor, offering a deeply personal yet universal tour of our hearts and minds and providing the rarest of gifts: a boldly revealing portrait of what it means to be human, and a disarmingly funny and illuminating account of our own mysterious lives and our power to transform them.
Who gave this one star??? As John in the book would say, "Idiot!"
评分可以帮助您自省的人。Brought me to tears many times.
评分作者作为psycho-therapist和“patient”两个双重身份讲故事,读书的过程中看着几个咨询者一点点在修补着自己,不论是对错过的遗憾,童年的不幸,对未来的恐惧,还是面对人生失去的可能性,学习到了好多智慧,了解每个人的痛苦没有分级,与自我的和解,self love and compassion,有很多值得沉淀的东西。Julie 和John 的两段故事都被感动哭了
评分我以为我的病好了
评分Maybe we all should talk to someone (who isn't involved in your real life). (忽然觉得我国虽然心理医生文化发展有限,网友文化却十分盛行,初心可能是一样的?)
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书