Lori Gottlieb is a psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author who writes The Atlantic's weekly "Dear Therapist" advice column. A contributing editor at The Atlantic, she also writes regularly for The New York Times, and has appeared on The Today Show, Good Morning America, CBS This Morning, CNN, and NPR. Learn more at LoriGottlieb.com or by following her @LoriGottlieb1 on Twitter.
One day, Lori Gottlieb is a therapist who helps patients in her Los Angeles practice. The next, a crisis causes her world to come crashing down. Enter Wendell, the quirky but seasoned therapist in whose office she suddenly lands. With his balding head, cardigan, and khakis, he seems to have come straight from Therapist Central Casting. Yet he will turn out to be anything but.
As Gottlieb explores the inner chambers of her patients' lives -- a self-absorbed Hollywood producer, a young newlywed diagnosed with a terminal illness, a senior citizen threatening to end her life on her birthday if nothing gets better, and a twenty-something who can't stop hooking up with the wrong guys -- she finds that the questions they are struggling with are the very ones she is now bringing to Wendell.
With startling wisdom and humor, Gottlieb invites us into her world as both clinician and patient, examining the truths and fictions we tell ourselves and others as we teeter on the tightrope between love and desire, meaning and mortality, guilt and redemption, terror and courage, hope and change.
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone is revolutionary in its candor, offering a deeply personal yet universal tour of our hearts and minds and providing the rarest of gifts: a boldly revealing portrait of what it means to be human, and a disarmingly funny and illuminating account of our own mysterious lives and our power to transform them.
發表於2024-05-14
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一個母親生下唐氏兒以後寫瞭一篇文章:“這事兒吧,就像我滿心歡喜準備去活色生香的意大利,結果飛機到瞭我纔發現,我被扔到瞭荷蘭,而且,還走不瞭瞭。” 一個自閉兒童的母親把這段話送給瞭她剛渡完蜜月就發現自己得瞭癌癥的好朋友。 我的第一反應就是,荷蘭哪兒有那麼慘?!...
評分 評分在心裏最失落的幾周,聽完瞭這本書。聽著跟自己相似的故事,被具有同情心的描述齣來,很治愈。那些沒有經曆過的、或感覺不平衡的事情,也能充滿同情心。把心裏那些洶湧的、無處安放的關於愛、親情、和死亡的情緒,備剖析齣來然後又溫柔對待。“But part of getting to know you...
評分 評分我喜歡這本書。 作為一個新手谘詢師,作為一個也在兩周一次看心理谘詢的client, 而更是,作為一個有思想有夢想有自己的焦慮與恐懼的平凡的人,這本書可以從不同的角度和層次中與我産生共鳴。 作者很巧妙的把自己作為一個谘詢師,client和普通的人的經曆與心理學一些有用的專業...
圖書標籤: 心理學 英文原版 療愈 Psychology/Psychiatry PSYCHOLOGY 英文 心理 科學和心理學
可以幫助您自省的人。Brought me to tears many times.
評分跟Mr.stupid相反,我非常願意甚至有點兒過度錶達自己不愉快的童年,不僅樂意承認它給我造成的傷害甚至會把它作為藉口逃避一些不愉快的選擇。看這本書很受啓發,跟自己和解,更能想明白自己跟愛人的關係,不應該從他身上獲取情感,應該是互相分享。跟作者一樣,不願意承認,但隱約還是被年齡在催促擔憂焦慮,埋的夠深而已。童年的問題要懂得脫敏,要珍惜自己。我以前總覺得找therapist尋求幫助不適閤我是因為我不可能信任對方,沒法真心袒露,看這本書明白瞭therapist能把人剝開,是在幾乎等於鬥爭的過程中幫助客戶(不是患者),不配閤的客戶有對應的手段。沒看這本書之前我真的沒認識到其實年齡的變化給我帶來瞭同樣的焦慮,很多時候的懊惱跟做決策的糾結都受那個我之前沒聽到的聲音影響,擔心自己經不起摺騰瞭。
評分絕對今年個人top 5
評分絕對今年個人top 5
評分聽的Audible版,仿佛做瞭14小時的therapy,深感值迴票價。雖然是學心理的但是對therapy滿心狐疑的我終於與其和解。
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone 2024 pdf epub mobi 電子書 下載