Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend are popular speakers, psychologists, cohosts of the nationally broadcast New Life Live! radio program, and cofounders of Cloud-Townsend Clinic and Cloud-Townsend Resources. Both graduated with doctorates in clinical psychology from Rosemead Graduate School of Psychology at Biola University, and both maintain practices in Newport Beach, California. They are best-selling coauthors of several books, including How People Grow, Boundaries in Dating, Boundaries with Kids, The Mom Factor, Safe People, and Twelve "Christian" Beliefs Than Can Drive You Crazy. Dr. Cloud is the author of Change That Heal and Dr. Townsend is the author of Hiding from Love.
发表于2025-04-01
Boundaries 2025 pdf epub mobi 电子书
阅读目标: 1.观察没有边界感的表现 2.分析没有边界感的原因 3.练习重新建立边界感的方式 *因圣经内容和判断性语句穿插,不确定本书是否能够达到以上目标。 第一章 关于界线的疑问 第二章 界线是啥 一、界限的定义 P23引- 我们必须对(to)别人与为(for)自己负责。 P24引-好...
评分就在前不久,看了一期2012职场好榜样,老板是李湘,要为她的影视公司招聘一名市场企划,有一女孩在1分钟的电梯时间里先声夺人,说自己最大的优势是性格外向,从事过多家外企的Marketing工作,手上有许多媒体资源可运用。当时李湘坦言,在8位应聘者中,这位女孩给她留下的印象最...
评分其实我可以说不,其实我可以不用负责别人的渴望 这本书让我对亲密关系有了顿悟,让我知道“说不并不等于不爱”,如果对方无法接受你的界限或者你的“不”,那迫使他们接受。否则,大家相互远离。而远离并不代表我是没有价值的,我是被抛弃的,这是对方无法接受独立的我而已,...
评分 评分看完过犹不及了,不管作者怎么说,用什么例子或什么定义,我认为,全书在说的,就是“责任”二字,所谓界线,大约就是分清哪些是自己的责任,哪些是别人的责任,承担起自己的责任,就是爱自己,也是爱别人。因而,过份的自卑与过份的自恋都不是爱自己,因为这些都是可以产生后...
图书标签: 心理学 relationship 成长 关系 Christian 自我管理 spiritual 英文原版
Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. Boundaries impact all areas of our lives: Physical boundaries help us determine who may touch us and under what circumstances -- Mental boundaries give us the freedom to have our own thoughts and opinions -- Emotional boundaries help us to deal with our own emotions and disengage from the harmful, manipulative emotions of others -- Spiritual boundaries help us to distinguish God's will from our own and give us renewed awe for our Creator -- Often, Christians focus so much on being loving and unselfish that they forget their own limits and limitations. When confronted with their lack of boundaries, they ask:
- Can I set limits and still be a loving person?
- What are legitimate boundaries?
- What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries?
- How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?
- Aren't boundaries selfish?
- Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend offer biblically-based answers to these and other tough questions, showing us how to set healthy boundaries with our parents, spouses, children, friends, co-workers, and even ourselves.
对基督教背景的同学很有用,这本书教会我们如何成熟地去爱和拒绝, 怎样成为像耶稣一样的人。没有背景的同学忽略宗教的部分,仍然能在做人和为人处世方面学到很多道理和方法。
评分非常赞的一本书,干货满满,花了差不多两个月才读完,并且尝试去做,感觉经历了一次奇妙的转变!几年前第一次读这本书的中文版,当时我的界限完全是混乱的,所以拿起来读的时候心中有种莫名其妙的怒气,一下子就把这本书丢掉了。但是经过我一年多在界限上的调整和突破,这些意味不明的经验经过这本书层层递进,清晰,丰富却简洁照亮,使我在智识上更加明白那些非常容易被混淆,让我们陷入困惑和伤害的真理。读完后心中充满了感激之情!也真实为自己能够坚持把这么厚一本书坚持不懈地读完感到骄傲!
评分Work In process
评分我的boundaries实在太糟糕了。那又怎么样,孩子的boundaries的作用大多数是来理解两岁之后人生的拒绝,做一个控制狂不是更开心吗,绝对优势策略https://archive.org/details/BOUNDARIESTheBook
评分D | 这本书是写给基督徒看的。不信上帝的我看的甚是拗口。所以扫了一眼就退了。不过无论如何,设置boundary都是很重要的。
Boundaries 2025 pdf epub mobi 电子书