Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend are popular speakers, psychologists, cohosts of the nationally broadcast New Life Live! radio program, and cofounders of Cloud-Townsend Clinic and Cloud-Townsend Resources. Both graduated with doctorates in clinical psychology from Rosemead Graduate School of Psychology at Biola University, and both maintain practices in Newport Beach, California. They are best-selling coauthors of several books, including How People Grow, Boundaries in Dating, Boundaries with Kids, The Mom Factor, Safe People, and Twelve "Christian" Beliefs Than Can Drive You Crazy. Dr. Cloud is the author of Change That Heal and Dr. Townsend is the author of Hiding from Love.
发表于2024-11-02
Boundaries 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书
这本书不是人人都会觉得有意思,也不是一本思想非常卓越或者写作水平相当高超的书。我想它大概不会成为一本名著,也不会流芳百世,这一点从豆瓣上的阅读人数就可以看得出。 从神学角度看,这不是一本好的解经书。对圣经的引用既不系统,也有一些牵强。更根本地说,它的出发点就...
评分就在前不久,看了一期2012职场好榜样,老板是李湘,要为她的影视公司招聘一名市场企划,有一女孩在1分钟的电梯时间里先声夺人,说自己最大的优势是性格外向,从事过多家外企的Marketing工作,手上有许多媒体资源可运用。当时李湘坦言,在8位应聘者中,这位女孩给她留下的印象最...
评分看这本书第一部分(前六章),心中给了3星的评价;看第二部分(界限的冲突)和第三部分前两章,感觉至少给4星评价,如果不是翻译文字比较拗口,我想5星都有可能。 为什么有这种感觉,可能和我已经看过《为孩子立界线》有关系,对界限十律熟悉了。不过《过犹不及》比《为孩子立...
评分读了大半,可能自己太没有神学细胞了吧,一直没什么共鸣。本能的总结便是从神学角度分析过犹不及这个道理。。。 因为从别处看到对这本书的推荐才来读,本以为又是像《优势谈判》《GTD》这样类似的实用性经典书籍,没想到内容对我来说就像是鸡肋,弃之可惜,食之又无味,最终因...
评分图书标签: 心理学 relationship 成长 关系 Christian 自我管理 spiritual 英文原版
Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. Boundaries impact all areas of our lives: Physical boundaries help us determine who may touch us and under what circumstances -- Mental boundaries give us the freedom to have our own thoughts and opinions -- Emotional boundaries help us to deal with our own emotions and disengage from the harmful, manipulative emotions of others -- Spiritual boundaries help us to distinguish God's will from our own and give us renewed awe for our Creator -- Often, Christians focus so much on being loving and unselfish that they forget their own limits and limitations. When confronted with their lack of boundaries, they ask:
- Can I set limits and still be a loving person?
- What are legitimate boundaries?
- What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries?
- How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?
- Aren't boundaries selfish?
- Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend offer biblically-based answers to these and other tough questions, showing us how to set healthy boundaries with our parents, spouses, children, friends, co-workers, and even ourselves.
many helpful insight to the problems in my life :P
评分非常赞的一本书,干货满满,花了差不多两个月才读完,并且尝试去做,感觉经历了一次奇妙的转变!几年前第一次读这本书的中文版,当时我的界限完全是混乱的,所以拿起来读的时候心中有种莫名其妙的怒气,一下子就把这本书丢掉了。但是经过我一年多在界限上的调整和突破,这些意味不明的经验经过这本书层层递进,清晰,丰富却简洁照亮,使我在智识上更加明白那些非常容易被混淆,让我们陷入困惑和伤害的真理。读完后心中充满了感激之情!也真实为自己能够坚持把这么厚一本书坚持不懈地读完感到骄傲!
评分对基督教背景的同学很有用,这本书教会我们如何成熟地去爱和拒绝, 怎样成为像耶稣一样的人。没有背景的同学忽略宗教的部分,仍然能在做人和为人处世方面学到很多道理和方法。
评分请想传教的作者在书上注明好吗????️听得我想和我therapist说不治了????
评分宗教放一边,这本书真是对不敢说no的老好人太有帮助了!
Boundaries 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书