Andrew Solomon writes about politics, culture, and health. He lives in New York and London. He has written for many publications--such as the New York Times, The New Yorker and Artforum--on topics including depression, Soviet artists, the cultural rebirth of Afghanistan, Libyan politics, and deaf culture. He is also a Contributing Writer for Travel and Leisure. In 2008, he was awarded the Humanitarian Award of the Society of Biological Psychiatry for his contributions to the field of mental health. He has a staff appointment as a Lecturer in Psychiatry at Cornell Medical School (Weill-Cornell Medical College).
From the National Book Award–winning author of The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression comes a monumental new work, a decade in the writing, about family. In Far from the Tree, Andrew Solomon tells the stories of parents who not only learn to deal with their exceptional children but also find profound meaning in doing so.
Solomon’s startling proposition is that diversity is what unites us all. He writes about families coping with deafness, dwarfism, Down syndrome, autism, schizophrenia, multiple severe disabilities, with children who are prodigies, who are conceived in rape, who become criminals, who are transgender. While each of these characteristics is potentially isolating, the experience of difference within families is universal, as are the triumphs of love Solomon documents in every chapter.
All parenting turns on a crucial question: to what extent parents should accept their children for who they are, and to what extent they should help them become their best selves. Drawing on forty thousand pages of interview transcripts with more than three hundred families, Solomon mines the eloquence of ordinary people facing extreme challenges. Whether considering prenatal screening for genetic disorders, cochlear implants for the deaf, or gender reassignment surgery for transgender people, Solomon narrates a universal struggle toward compassion. Many families grow closer through caring for a challenging child; most discover supportive communities of others similarly affected; some are inspired to become advocates and activists, celebrating the very conditions they once feared. Woven into their courageous and affirming stories is Solomon’s journey to accepting his own identity, which culminated in his midlife decision, influenced by this research, to become a parent.
Elegantly reported by a spectacularly original thinker, Far from the Tree explores themes of generosity, acceptance, and tolerance—all rooted in the insight that love can transcend every prejudice. This crucial and revelatory book expands our definition of what it is to be human.
發表於2025-03-30
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感覺Far From the Tree這書有挺嚴重的選擇偏倚和迴憶偏倚,更能接受子女殘障的傢庭纔會更願意接受作者的訪談,而這樣的傢庭迴憶當年時難免對自己已經選擇的道路更加堅定。
評分如果你十幾歲的孩子是個侏儒,而他/她卻非常渴望開始約會,身為母親,你的感覺會是怎樣的呢?如果你被強奸後懷上你的女兒,雖然你很愛她,但卻不能忍受她碰你,你又該怎麼辦呢?如果你的兒子非常快樂,但卻完全失聰,他已經忘記瞭聽見聲音的感覺是怎樣的瞭,迴憶起你們一起演奏...
評分很久之前,我看到過一個fun fact,大意是跟很多長期的聾啞人討論一個能夠恢復聽力的機會,齣乎意料的是,大部分的長期聾啞人都對這樣的機會不以為然,很多甚至還錶示,自己不迴去選擇恢復自己的聽力。當時的我震驚之餘,也覺得大概隻是他們隻是習慣瞭這種無聲的狀態。就像我的...
評分感覺Far From the Tree這書有挺嚴重的選擇偏倚和迴憶偏倚,更能接受子女殘障的傢庭纔會更願意接受作者的訪談,而這樣的傢庭迴憶當年時難免對自己已經選擇的道路更加堅定。
評分很久之前,我看到過一個fun fact,大意是跟很多長期的聾啞人討論一個能夠恢復聽力的機會,齣乎意料的是,大部分的長期聾啞人都對這樣的機會不以為然,很多甚至還錶示,自己不迴去選擇恢復自己的聽力。當時的我震驚之餘,也覺得大概隻是他們隻是習慣瞭這種無聲的狀態。就像我的...
圖書標籤: 心理學 社會學 安德魯·所羅門 英文原版 AndrewSolomon sociology Psychology 《紐約時報》:2012年度十大好書
如果不是社會的非難,我不覺得我的不同有什麼沮喪。一本不同者和其他身份不同者探索身份的書。好書為什麼沒有中文版?
評分如果不是社會的非難,我不覺得我的不同有什麼沮喪。一本不同者和其他身份不同者探索身份的書。好書為什麼沒有中文版?
評分第一章 極精彩 第二章 嗯 還蠻重複上一章的 第三章 嗯 依然重複 第四章 放棄
評分Andrew Soloman的 TED 曾經陪我跑過多少夜晚... # Being vulnerable is not shameful.
評分五顆星完全不夠。值得反復讀的書。
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