Alan Downs, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist in private practice located in Beverly Hills, California. He is the author of seven previous books and continues to write and hold workshops across the United States. He is actively involved in dialectical behavior therapy and is a member of the Beverly Hills DBT Team. Dr. Downs is the former CEO of Michael's House Treatment Center where he currently holds weekend workshops for families of those struggling with addictions. His current book, THE VELVET RAGE, has been acclaimed as "groundbreaking" for the gay male community. Dr. Downs has been a guest on many media programs including, THE OPRAH WINFREY SHOW, TODAY SHOW, and NPR's MORNING EDITION.
This is the groundbreaking examination of the psychology of homosexuality and why it leads to shame over one's identity, and how to overcome it - now expanded and fully updated. Today's gay man enjoys unprecedented, hard-won social acceptance. Despite this victory, however, serious problems still exist. Substance abuse, depression, suicide and sex addiction among gay men are at an all-time high, causing many to ask, "Are we really better off?" Drawing on contemporary research, psychologist Alan Downs' own struggle with shame and anger, and stories from his patients, "The Velvet Rage" passionately describes the stages of a gay man's journey out of shame and offers practical and inspired strategies to stop the cycle of avoidance and self-defeating behaviour. Updated to reflect the effects of the many recent social, cultural and political changes, "The Velvet Rage" is an empowering book that has already changed the public discourse on gay culture and helped shape the identity of an entire generation of gay men.
發表於2024-11-23
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最說得通的是shame理論,其它的有些微牽強(或者是因為我沒有相應經曆),以至於在stage three顯得很亂,盡管八卦依舊好看。 的確在裏麵找到瞭我自己。 /200222: 看到終章瞭,這章寫作者自己的故事,格外好。除瞭羞恥,還有認可、真實等理論,其實到最後都發展得比較成熟。goodreads和amazon上的批評主要在於作者忽略瞭白人中産同性戀意外的男同性戀者,這個有什麼關係啊,完全沒有減損這本書的價值。 /200222: 讀畢,精彩。
評分Life altering.
評分書中對成長中內化的羞恥感shame的挖掘比較深入,雖然現在時代變好瞭,大環境稍微開放瞭點,但是成長過程中的創傷存在潛意識裏並不那麼容易根除。如何尋找獲得authentic validation的生活方式可能是很多人一生都不一定解的開的結吧。
評分一本關於“how to be authentic and true to yourself”的工具書,可是在對於由性取嚮所帶來的shame和rage的描述和觀察上還是沒能避免刻闆印象的傾嚮。性取嚮隻是“我是誰”的一部分,對不同的人的影響可大也可小。作為txl,對於自己身份的認同感以及如何麵對/處理和傢裏的關係是一段感情是否能長遠的關鍵,這也和作者不斷強調的authenticity不謀而閤,健康和長久的戀愛關係,一定是需要兩個“健全”的人的相互維係,缺一不可。
評分emmm 大可不必。
The Velvet Rage 2024 pdf epub mobi 電子書 下載