Becoming Myself: A Psychiatrist's Memoir

Irvin D. Yalom is an emeritus professor of psychiatry at Stanford University and a psychiatrist in San Francisco. He is the author of many books, including Love's Executioner, The Gift of Therapy, and When Nietzsche Wept.

出版者:Basic Books

作者:Irvin D. Yalom

页数:352

出版时间:2017-10-3

价格:USD 10.78

装帧:Kindle

isbn号码:9780465098897

图书标签:心理学传记欧文·亚隆心理咨询心理咨询与治疗欧文亚隆回忆录存在主义

Irvin D. Yalom has made a career of investigating the lives of others. In this profound memoir, he turns his writing and his therapeutic eye on himself. He opens his story with a nightmare: He is twelve, and is riding his bike past the home of an acne-scarred girl. Like every morning, he calls out, hoping to befriend her, "Hello Measles!" But in his dream, the girl's father makes Yalom understand that his daily greeting had hurt her. For Yalom, this was the birth of empathy; he would not forget the lesson. As Becoming Myself unfolds, we see the birth of the insightful thinker whose books have been a beacon to so many. This is not simply a man's life story, Yalom's reflections on his life and development are an invitation for us to reflect on the origins of our own selves and the meanings of our lives.

读后感

从艰辛却不失温情的犹太移民生活聊到催人奋进的学霸故事，从青梅竹马、情比金坚的爱情聊到潇洒充实的游记，从自己对年老和死亡的释然聊到意义非凡、使命感爆棚的心理治疗工作等，一位古稀老者就这样将自己80多年的人生经历地展现在读者面前，很难不引起大家的共鸣，而我也不例...

从艰辛却不失温情的犹太移民生活聊到催人奋进的学霸故事，从青梅竹马、情比金坚的爱情聊到潇洒充实的游记，从自己对年老和死亡的释然聊到意义非凡、使命感爆棚的心理治疗工作等，一位古稀老者就这样将自己80多年的人生经历地展现在读者面前，很难不引起大家的共鸣，而我也不例...

好长一阵子不写字。因为焦虑一直在，怎么都赶不走。 回国的飞机上我把手机上能看的书都看了一遍，但就算里尔克也没能把我从焦虑中拉出来。 “他们必须用他们整个的生命，用一切的力量，集聚他们的寂寞、痛苦和向上激动的心去学习爱。” “寂寞地生存是好的，因为寂寞是艰难的；...  

从艰辛却不失温情的犹太移民生活聊到催人奋进的学霸故事，从青梅竹马、情比金坚的爱情聊到潇洒充实的游记，从自己对年老和死亡的释然聊到意义非凡、使命感爆棚的心理治疗工作等，一位古稀老者就这样将自己80多年的人生经历地展现在读者面前，很难不引起大家的共鸣，而我也不例...

好长一阵子不写字。因为焦虑一直在，怎么都赶不走。 回国的飞机上我把手机上能看的书都看了一遍，但就算里尔克也没能把我从焦虑中拉出来。 “他们必须用他们整个的生命，用一切的力量，集聚他们的寂寞、痛苦和向上激动的心去学习爱。” “寂寞地生存是好的，因为寂寞是艰难的；...  

用户评价

如果说读杨绛的书有种像听老奶奶唠家常般的亲切与顺畅，那么读亚隆的这本封笔之作就像是在正襟危坐认真聆听老爷爷传递他一生的精彩片段与人生感悟。种种细节，好比指尖细纹，人世间处处可见，却也处处难言。而能如此坦诚地一一道出，共鸣与治愈功效太难得。

读到很多自己的故事，看到亚隆先生与发小妻子相遇、结婚，由衷的喜悦，也有羡慕，原来现实里真有灵魂伴侣，原来爱真能平息内心的焦躁、治愈创伤。(读第二遍ing....)

如果说读杨绛的书有种像听老奶奶唠家常般的亲切与顺畅，那么读亚隆的这本封笔之作就像是在正襟危坐认真聆听老爷爷传递他一生的精彩片段与人生感悟。种种细节，好比指尖细纹，人世间处处可见，却也处处难言。而能如此坦诚地一一道出，共鸣与治愈功效太难得。

He's an honest man without doubt. By revealing the details of life, a memoir, one can now say that he's becoming the person he was meant to be. The book title is definitely thought provoking.

He lives an honest life.