'Hello, I'm Esther... I imagine a world where we experience a sense of aliveness and vitality in our relationships, because the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. I've dedicated my life and career to understanding and improving human relationships. Let's continue to learn together.'
Psychotherapist Esther Perel is recognised as one of the most insightful and original voices on modern love. She has changed the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life.. For the past ten years, she has worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she argues, but healing is possible. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage - with the same person. With the right approach, couples can learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Weaving real-life stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis, Perel invites readers into a truly revealing exploration of modern marriage. She coaches, consults and speaks regularly on erotic intelligence, trauma, sexual honesty and conflict resolution. She is the bestselling author of Mating in Captivity and her TED Talk has reached 6.5 million views online.
A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.
發表於2024-11-07
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寫在前麵:4月來北京,月底入職,10月齣第一本書。我隻是一名剛入行的新手編輯,本不該寫這篇手記,因為既沒有像眾多前輩的經驗總結,也沒有跌宕起伏令人叫絕的做書故事,有的隻是第一次在編輯的邊緣瘋狂試探、一點感悟、一腔孤勇。但好在年輕(不要打我),一切纔剛剛開始。 ...
評分 評分朋友圈看到這樣一句話: 很多人,為瞭8小時的工作,願意鑽研10000小時; 卻從沒想過,為一輩子的婚姻,學習15分鍾。 好的婚姻,需要兩人共同努力。 真摯永恒的親密關係,隻屬於成熟睿智、懂得平衡藝術的頭腦。 01.“背叛我,就殺你全傢” 看到這樣一則新聞: 鬍某對妻子是一見...
評分 評分1 上周末和發小逛街,她突然問我: 你會不會在婚姻裏感到寂寞? 發小和她老公大學相戀,結婚8年,孩子6歲。身邊朋友羨慕她會生活、懂教育,孩子很小就學會800個漢字、畫畫、小提琴,和老公也幾乎從不吵架,不像自己傢雞飛狗跳,和老公爭吵不斷,為雞毛蒜皮打得熱火朝天。 但她...
圖書標籤: 心理學 兩性 relationship 英文原版 性心理 心理 love desiration
它告訴你婚姻是如何成為愛情的墳墓的。人和人之間靠得太近,就會連對象的麵貌都看不清。
評分我覺得這本書還挺有參考意義的,而且很具有實用性。通篇基本講兩性關係中的“性”,普及瞭愛情中的常識,一些例子也挺吸引人的。說明不管是已婚還是未婚,可比自己單身難多瞭!
評分EP的過人之處在於,她是一個好的治療師之餘,還是一個好的作者,演講者。婚姻治療的案例和技巧可藉鑒性很強。
評分想看esther perel跟齊澤剋對談(笑)親密關係成為瞭我對抗霸權機器的小小自留地。然而在這個自留地開展自由的實踐,卻更加的考驗自我啊
評分Key points: 1. Recognize your partner's agency/sovereignty. This is the most important point. You do not own them. 2. Your attachment style to the main care giver (usually the mom) profoundly determines your way of interaction with your significant other. 3. It is okay to have "perverted" sexual fantasies. Just know that they're merely fantasies.
Mating in Captivity 2024 pdf epub mobi 電子書 下載