Carol Tavris is a social psychologist, writer, and lecturer whose goal is to promote psychological science and critical thinking in improving our lives. She is coauthor, with Elliot Aronson, of "Mistakes Were Made (But Not by ME): Why we justify foolish beliefs, bad decisions, and hurtful acts," and, with Avrum Bluming, the forthcoming "Estrogen Matters." Her other major books include the landmark "Anger: The misunderstood emotion," a book well known for its critical look at unvalidated notions about the inevitability of anger and the need to "ventilate" it, and how anger can best be expressed constructively. She is also author of the award-winning "The Mismeasure of Woman: Why women are not the better sex, the inferior sex, or the opposite sex," and coauthor of two widely used textbooks, with Carole Wade, for introductory psychology. She has written hundreds of essays and book reviews on topics in psychological science, and is a highly regarded lecturer who has spoken to groups around the world, from New Zealand to Finland. She is a Fellow of the Association for Psychological Science and the Los Angeles Institute for the Humanities.
Elliot Aronson is a social psychologist and Professor Emeritus at the University of California at Santa Cruz and Distinguished Visiting Professor at Stanford University. He has previously taught at Harvard, the University of Texas and the University of Minnesota. As a researcher, he is best known for his groundbreaking research on social influence and persuasion as well as for the invention of the jigsaw classroom (a strategy for reducing prejudice in public schools).
He has written 22 books including The Social Animal, Age of Propaganda (with Anthony Pratkanis), Nobody Left to Hate, The Adventures of Ruthie and a Little Boy Named Grandpa (with his 7-year-oldgranddaughter, Ruth Aronson, and Mistakes Were Made But Not By Me (with Carol Tavris).
Aronson is the only person in the 120-year history of the American Psychological Association to have received all three of its highest awards: For Distinguished Research, Distinguished Teaching, and Distinguished Writing. In 1981, he was named Professor of the Year by the Council for the Advancement and Support of Education.
Among his other awards are the Gordon Allport prize for his contributions to inter-racial harmony and the William James Lifetime Achievement Award from the Association for Psychological Science (2007). Recently, his peers named him as one of the 100 most influential psychologists of the 20th Century.
He was elected to the American Academy of Arts and Sciences and
has served as President of the Society of Personality and Social Psychology as well as President of the Western Psychological Association.
Why do people dodge responsibility when things fall apart? Why the parade of public figures unable to own up when they screw up? Why the endless marital quarrels over who is right? Why can we see hypocrisy in others but not in ourselves? Are we all liars? Or do we really believe the stories we tell?
Renowned social psychologists Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson take a compelling look into how the brain is wired for self-justification. When we make mistakes, we must calm the cognitive dissonance that jars our feelings of self-worth. And so we create fictions that absolve us of responsibility, restoring our belief that we are smart, moral, and right—a belief that often keeps us on a course that is dumb, immoral, and wrong.
Backed by years of research and delivered in lively, energetic prose, Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me) offers a fascinating explanation of self-deception—how it works, the harm it can cause, and how we can overcome it.
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美國著名作傢斯蒂芬.金有一篇代錶作《肖申剋的救贖》,講述的是一個前途無量的年輕銀行傢安迪被指控槍殺妻子和情夫,在一係列“鐵證”麵前身陷囹圄,安迪在獄中利用專業知識和頑強意誌,最終實現瞭自我救贖。在安迪的謀殺案中,有一個重要證人——商店職員,他證明安迪買過香煙...
評分一個很好地比喻,人怎樣不斷地為自己的行為找理由,進而在固定的方嚮上越走越遠。就像是站在金字塔尖上,一個小的決定來正正當化自己的決定,一步步地走嚮塔底,最後呈現齣巨大的差異。 作者說明白瞭道理對現實的指導意義不大。 但我覺得,當一個人犯瞭彌天大錯時,可以用來分...
評分書中對加入兄弟會的研究錶明,加入越是睏難,加入成員對組織的認同度越是高。 宣泄假說被徹底推翻,與沒有機會錶達憤怒的人們相比,那些被允許錶達自己對卡恩憤怒的人對他更加深惡痛絕。由於學生們認為自己已經給卡恩帶來瞭麻煩,因此他們不得不為自己的行為辯護,讓自己相...
評分美國著名作傢斯蒂芬.金有一篇代錶作《肖申剋的救贖》,講述的是一個前途無量的年輕銀行傢安迪被指控槍殺妻子和情夫,在一係列“鐵證”麵前身陷囹圄,安迪在獄中利用專業知識和頑強意誌,最終實現瞭自我救贖。在安迪的謀殺案中,有一個重要證人——商店職員,他證明安迪買過香煙...
評分在書評正文開始之前,容我先講一個以前看到的笑話。當然,因為本人實在沒有什麼講笑話的天賦,所以讀起來可能不怎麼有趣: 今天看電視的時候,有個節目說“吸煙可能導緻肺癌”,嚇得我趕緊關瞭電視,不行,我得吸根煙冷靜一下。 在我們的生活中,我們,以及我們身邊的人會不...
圖書標籤: 心理學 psychology 思維 英文原版 批判思維 劉未鵬薦 Thinking 認知心理學
花瞭一個禮拜零零碎碎的時間翻完瞭 不推薦 整本書隻需要看前兩章就可以瞭 後麵都是不斷重復加各種實例 喜歡類似心理學內容的人可以看 thinking fast and slow 絕對經典 中文版也有的
評分#前半部分挺有啓發性的,後半部分有些重復瞭
評分#前半部分挺有啓發性的,後半部分有些重復瞭
評分篇幅可以縮減1/3,為瞭論證自己的觀點,confirmation bias,self-justification,有些例子與論段比較牽強(夫妻關係的部分)。一個有益的觀點是,你與你的錯誤,應該分開來看,你的錯誤不能完全代錶你是誰(我覺得這個也取決於是什麼錯誤吧)
評分不如叫做#self-justification的實例大全#…後麵幾章說來說去都是一個意思…換瞭不同方麵的例子而已…有點囉嗦和冗長…沒有看到足夠多的實驗研究不開心…還有…把所有的問題都歸結為self-justification 是不是也太簡單化瞭…#兩個人最初的選擇也許都是迷迷糊糊地做齣的,然後一步一步因為self-justification而從金字塔尖端走下,最後變成完全不同的兩個人
Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me) 2024 pdf epub mobi 電子書 下載