Pamela Druckerman is a former staff reporter for The Wall Street Journal, where she covered foreign affairs. She has also written for The New York Times, The Washington Post, and Marie Claire, and appeared on The Today Show and NPR's Morning Edition. Her previous book, Lust in Translation, was translated into eight languages. She has a master's degree in international affairs from Columbia. She lives in Paris.
发表于2024-04-29
Bringing Up Bebe 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书
如果你想同时做女人和母亲, 如果你想把自己的小孩培养的有礼貌又不呆板, 如果你想轻轻松松带小孩, 如果你想小孩听话又有他的自由,如果你想小孩不挑食, 如果你在绞尽脑汁如何具体教孩子延迟满足。。。 请一定耐心把这本书读完。即使目前只有英文版。 这是一个受过高等教...
评分1.新生儿夜哭:不要马上跑过去抱或喂奶。暂停和等待一下,观察他是否真的醒来,过几分钟如果能自行入睡就不要吵他。孩子能做到第一次自己入睡那么以后更容易再次自己入睡。如果哭闹变的坚决再抱。 2.给予一定的界限,让孩子在此框架内自由选择想玩的方式和东西。 3.加入辅食时...
评分 评分作者 王涛 我没有到过法国,也没有亲眼看过法国的父母怎样教育自己的孩子。《法国妈妈育儿经》一书让我通过一位美国妈妈的目光学习了法国父母的教育理念和方法。本书的阅读对我是一个比较独特的文化体验:一个中国人借着美国文化的眼镜去看法国人怎样做父母。即便如此...
评分如果你想同时做女人和母亲, 如果你想把自己的小孩培养的有礼貌又不呆板, 如果你想轻轻松松带小孩, 如果你想小孩听话又有他的自由,如果你想小孩不挑食, 如果你在绞尽脑汁如何具体教孩子延迟满足。。。 请一定耐心把这本书读完。即使目前只有英文版。 这是一个受过高等教...
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The secret behind France's astonishingly well-behaved children.
When American journalist Pamela Druckerman has a baby in Paris, she doesn't aspire to become a "French parent." French parenting isn't a known thing, like French fashion or French cheese. Even French parents themselves insist they aren't doing anything special.
Yet, the French children Druckerman knows sleep through the night at two or three months old while those of her American friends take a year or more. French kids eat well-rounded meals that are more likely to include braised leeks than chicken nuggets. And while her American friends spend their visits resolving spats between their kids, her French friends sip coffee while the kids play.
Motherhood itself is a whole different experience in France. There's no role model, as there is in America, for the harried new mom with no life of her own. French mothers assume that even good parents aren't at the constant service of their children and that there's no need to feel guilty about this. They have an easy, calm authority with their kids that Druckerman can only envy.
Of course, French parenting wouldn't be worth talking about if it produced robotic, joyless children. In fact, French kids are just as boisterous, curious, and creative as Americans. They're just far better behaved and more in command of themselves. While some American toddlers are getting Mandarin tutors and preliteracy training, French kids are- by design-toddling around and discovering the world at their own pace.
With a notebook stashed in her diaper bag, Druckerman-a former reporter for The Wall Street Journal-sets out to learn the secrets to raising a society of good little sleepers, gourmet eaters, and reasonably relaxed parents. She discovers that French parents are extremely strict about some things and strikingly permissive about others. And she realizes that to be a different kind of parent, you don't just need a different parenting philosophy. You need a very different view of what a child actually is.
While finding her own firm non, Druckerman discovers that children-including her own-are capable of feats she'd never imagined.
观念还蛮契合的~也许不符合国内主流育儿观,但是个人觉得还不错~身在美国,真的觉得,这样的溺爱与自由并不可以成就孩子~私以为,自律才能真正使人自由~
评分很认同且佩服法国人的育儿理念,如何在成为一个母亲的同时还能保留自我,且维持生活的平衡,实在是门高深的学问
评分真的很好笑(用语幽默)
评分没有孩子的时候看看,打算有了孩子怎么办。
评分一邊看一邊猛然發現,原來現在華人圈那麼多奇奇怪怪的帶娃論都是受了美國的影響,什麼必須多陪伴啦之類的,可是現在的小孩大部分在家裡都受到過多的重視了,要到幾歲才能發現這個世界並不像家裡那樣每個人都圍著自己團團轉的呢?讓我最深刻的是書中提到小孩的慾望不需要馬上滿足,其實是讓他們盡早學會耐心地等待以及如何面對挫折。
Bringing Up Bebe 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书