阿黛尔•法伯(Adele Faber)和伊莱恩•玛兹丽施(Elaine Mazlish),国际著名亲子沟通专家,美国最畅销亲子教育书系作者。
她们是纽约市社会研究新校和长岛大学家庭生活研究所的创建者。本书是她们在创办的学校和研究所长期与父母们一起进行实验的研究总结。如今世界上数以千万的父母用自身的实践证明这些方法非常有效。她们除了在美国和加拿大各地频繁演讲外,还经常出现在《早安美国》(Good Morning America)和《欧普拉》(Oprah)等热门电视节目里。
法伯与玛兹丽施都是三位孩子的母亲,她们已被收录于美国名人录。
发表于2024-11-04
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书
http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_4dadb9f70102ees3.html 这个案例综合应用了第一、二、五章的技巧。 http://www.douban.com/note/267741315/?start=0&post=ok#last 采用了第三章中解决问题的五个步骤。
评分一开始翻开这本书的时候,我是把它定位在如何与孩子沟通的方向上的。可是越往后看,我就越觉得很多的案例,可是用在成人的培训中,尤其是沟通技巧方面,Interpersonal Skill or Communication Skill。 为什么呢?因为这本书在最初定的基调就是,把孩子作为跟你是平等的人对待...
评分当《如何说孩子才会听 怎么听孩子才肯说》在1980年首次出版的时候,谁都不曾预料到,它不仅是最畅销的书之一,而且成为20多年来家长们的“育儿宝典”,销售量超过300万册,同时,还被翻译成30多种语言在全球传播。谁也没有想到,经过这么多年,这本书依然保持着旺盛的生命...
评分日常生活中,熊孩子不仅有呆萌可爱的部分,还有一秒钟翻脸不认人的时候。本来出门前说的好好的,一出门就开启了狂风暴雨模式,你不知道消极情绪何时会来。消极情绪不仅会让孩子手足无措,还会打破大人原来的行程计划,让人火冒三丈丧失理智。如何处理孩子的消极情绪,倾听孩子...
图书标签: 育儿 教育 沟通 心理学 parenting 父母学习 心理 英文版
《如何说孩子才会听怎么听孩子才肯说》是美国家庭教育十大畅销书之一,销售300多万册,被译为30多种文字版本广泛传颂,全球父母亲子必读。该书长踞美国畅销书排行榜,长居《纽约时报》亲子类畅销书排行榜,出版20多年长销不衰。
★中国大陆唯一授权正版中文精装本!
★美国最著名的亲子教育书系作者,送给中国父母的最好礼物——爱的技巧和训练。
“你这孩子怎么那么不听话?”面对孩子的行为做父母的常常忍不住脱口而出。是的,天凉了让加衣服就是不加,地板凉可就是要打光脚,就是不要刷牙,就是要把饭弄得满桌子都是,就是不叫叔叔阿姨,就是要把屋子弄得乱七八糟,到吃饭的点了可就是还要看电视,就是不愿意做作业……等等,全是怎么说都不听。
阅读本书的经历,将是一次学习爱的技巧与接受爱的训练的过程, 它给了你走进孩子内心世界的钥匙,指引你切身体会孩子内心的感受。通过一系列实用有效的方法,帮助你和孩子建立起一个能够快乐交流的平台,使孩子变得不同寻常地愿意与父母配合。掌握了“如何说?”“怎么听?”的技巧,就能开启孩子的心灵世界,与孩子达成美妙的交流沟通,让孩子在您的引导下身心健康发展。
Publisher Comments :
You Can Stop Fighting With Your Children
Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know-how you need to be more effective with your children--and more supportive of yourself. Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, the down-to-earth, respectful approach of Faber and Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding. Now, in this Twentieth Anniversary Edition, these award-winning experts share their latest insights and suggestions based upon feedback they've received over the years.
Their methods of communication-illustrated with delightful cartoons showing the skills in action-offer innovative ways to solve common problems. You'll learn how to:
1.Cope with your child's negative feelings-frustration, disappointment, anger, etc.
2.Express your anger without being hurtful
3.Engage your child's willing cooperation
4.Set firm limits and still maintain goodwill
5.Use alternatives to punishment
6.Resolve family conflicts peacefully
Amazon.com
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk is an excellent communication tool kit based on a series of workshops developed by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish. Faber and Mazlish (coauthors of Siblings Without Rivalry) provide a step-by-step approach to improving relationships in your house. The "Reminder" pages, helpful cartoon illustrations, and excellent exercises will improve your ability as a parent to talk and problem-solve with your children. The book can be used alone or in parenting groups, and the solid tools provided are appropriate for kids of all ages.
About Author
Internationally acclaimed experts on communication between adults and children, Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish have won the gratitude of parents and the enthusiastic endorsement of the professional community.
Their first book, Liberated Parents/Liberated Children, received the Christopher Award for "literary achievement affirming the highest values of the human spirit." Their subsequent books, How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk and the #1 New York Times bestseller Siblings Without Rivalry, have sold over 3 million copies and have been translated into more than twenty languages. Their group workshop programs and videos produced by PBS are currently used by thousands of parents' groups around the globe. Their most recent book, How to Talk So Kids Can Learn-At Home and in School, was cited by Child magazine as the "best book of the year for excellence in family issues and education."
Both authors studied with the late child psychologist, Dr. Haim Ginott, and are former members of the faculty of The New School for Social Research in New York City and The Family Life Institute of Long Island University. In addition to their frequent lectures throughout the United States and Canada, they have appeared on every major television show from "Good Morning America" to "The Oprah Winfrey Show." They currently reside in Long Island, New York, and each is the parent of three children.
From Los Angeles Times
"Designed to bring adults to the level of children, and children to the level of adults, so that this happy meeting ground can truly make for harmony in the home."
Book Dimension
Height (mm) 206 Width (mm) 138
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看了前几页就感觉很棒的样子!
评分很好。每章都有4-5个key point,辅以大量实例、可操作的工具,还有很强的趣味性(很多漫画)。
评分Audible。感觉似乎是一本有用的书,可是阅读体验比较一般,有些地方是“哇还能这样,好像很厉害”,还有些地方会觉得“真的需要这么夸张吗?”大概是把对付各种类型熊孩子的奇技淫巧都集合在一起了,包括对普通小朋友通常不需要使用终极武器(希望杨大鲸顺利长成一个普通小朋友)。最后很大篇幅的读者来信比较无聊,Audible跳起来没有书方便,有点烦。
评分就我所看过的育儿书里最最推荐的 不要看中文版 中文版是精华版 要看原版各种案例和应对方法写的非常到位????????读原版总是很慢,有时候拖延症拖起来实在是要老命啊,这本書和不要
评分未雨绸缪,早点儿看心里踏实。Parenting这门功课没人教但又这么重要,怎么能指望无师自通。
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书