SUSAN CAIN is a consultant to major corporations and law firms on negotiation strategies and personal presentation style. She lives in the Hudson River Valley with her husband and two sons. Visit her website, ThePowerofIntroverts.com.
发表于2025-01-22
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前段时间刚分享了Susan Cain 名为“The power of introverts 内向者的力量”的TED演讲(http://www.wisdomsnack.com/890.html),因为非常有共鸣,这几日正打算读她今年一月刚出版的新书 Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking,无意间发现了Chr...
评分还记得从一次偶然的机会得知,内外向性格的并不是以传统的健谈与否,安静与否来划分。“外向的人更倾向从外部世界寻找力量,而内向的人更倾向关注自己的内部世界”。第一次,我开始怀疑自己的性格,到底应该划分为内向,抑或外向。 你有没有过这样的经历:对陌...
评分 评分1、给内向者的建议:在周末的时候尽量保持自己安静的本性,在工作日里努力“走出自己的世界,流露出混合的性格,跟你的团队和同事联系,调动起你可以控制的一切能量”。(而如果你是个外向的人,你应该让你的周末回归本我变得疯狂起来,上课的时候专注于学业。) 2、你在某些领...
评分《Quiet》的内容,从标题来看是猜得到的,它很大篇幅就是如题所示地,论证了内向的人多么牛,世界多么需要我们,内向者照亮人类文明的未来。这些内容当然非常有必要。内向的人往往不太掌握话语权,也不太追求这个,我们都有些委屈,有些自我怀疑,又有些莫名的自负,有个人替我...
图书标签: 心理学 Psychology Introversion 英文原版 心理 内向 SusanCain 美国
At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking, reading to partying; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over brainstorming in teams. Although they are often labeled "quiet," it is to introverts that we owe many of the great contributions to society--from van Gogh’s sunflowers to the invention of the personal computer.
Passionately argued, impressively researched, and filled with indelible stories of real people, Quiet shows how dramatically we undervalue introverts, and how much we lose in doing so. Taking the reader on a journey from Dale Carnegie’s birthplace to Harvard Business School, from a Tony Robbins seminar to an evangelical megachurch, Susan Cain charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal in the twentieth century and explores its far-reaching effects. She talks to Asian-American students who feel alienated from the brash, backslapping atmosphere of American schools. She questions the dominant values of American business culture, where forced collaboration can stand in the way of innovation, and where the leadership potential of introverts is often overlooked. And she draws on cutting-edge research in psychology and neuroscience to reveal the surprising differences between extroverts and introverts.
Perhaps most inspiring, she introduces us to successful introverts--from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the power of questions. Finally, she offers invaluable advice on everything from how to better negotiate differences in introvert-extrovert relationships to how to empower an introverted child to when it makes sense to be a "pretend extrovert."
This extraordinary book has the power to permanently change how we see introverts and, equally important, how introverts see themselves.
Part sociology part psychology part self-help. It makes me more comfortable with who I am, but it's still a world full of extrovert ideals, particularly in the west. I think Asian people in the west will strongly identify with the chapter about cultural differences w.r.t. introversion.
评分via Alan. As Alan said, this book crystalizes things we have been realizing on our own. I am always proud to be an introvert. Wait, what is the name of that song? Quiet is the new loud!
评分作者/作者所描述的和我的生活太近了,讀著感覺好奇怪。
评分Insightful. A guidebook for introverts and also for the rest of the world to get to know more about the introverts and enjoy the brilliance of them. Never realized that I was actually a pseudo-extrovert or at least an ambivert. It's wonderful that I've made it through those hard times.
评分读这本并不是为了去「验证」或「正名」,别搞得像内向的人天生矮一截一样嘛,虽然作者总时不时让我这么觉得。最后几章更有收获,讲如何对待身边的内向/外向人,尤其是在成长阶段的小孩子。总想起自己小时候那个装作很外向的阶段,不过回头看一下觉得做得还不错呢。当然现在这种stay true的状态更好。哦对作者确实有点絮叨,耐着性子解释给你听的感觉。
Quiet 2025 pdf epub mobi 电子书