SUSAN CAIN is a consultant to major corporations and law firms on negotiation strategies and personal presentation style. She lives in the Hudson River Valley with her husband and two sons. Visit her website, ThePowerofIntroverts.com.
发表于2024-04-29
Quiet 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书
在找工作时,我们简历上描述自己的时候,往往会写上:“性格开朗、善于沟通、组织能力强”等这样的字眼,不管自己是不是这样或者喜不喜欢这样。我们认为现在商业社会的主流是需要这样的人,而不喜欢性格沉默、不善于沟通、组织能力不强的人。有人说:“从个性文化发端起,我们...
评分 评分心理学家荣格将人的性格分为内向者和外向者,在他看来,内向者更关注内心世界,而外向者倾向关注人们的外部活动;内向者的注意力往往集中在事物的意义上,而外向者则会投身与事件当中;内向者需要独处来获得放松,而外向者在社会交往中就能吸取能量。图书:内向性格的竞争力 ...
评分朋友们绝不认为我是个内向者,或许因为我笑点低,说话很大声,有点凶巴巴,对人很强势。 于是我也自认为我是外向者。 似乎潜意识里,都认为内向就是个贬义词,意味着胆小,怯懦,不善交际。显然我离以上还是有一段距离的。 但是渐渐地,看过的书,认识的人,经历过事情的越来越...
评分朋友们绝不认为我是个内向者,或许因为我笑点低,说话很大声,有点凶巴巴,对人很强势。 于是我也自认为我是外向者。 似乎潜意识里,都认为内向就是个贬义词,意味着胆小,怯懦,不善交际。显然我离以上还是有一段距离的。 但是渐渐地,看过的书,认识的人,经历过事情的越来越...
图书标签: 心理学 Psychology Introversion 英文原版 心理 内向 SusanCain 美国
At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking, reading to partying; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over brainstorming in teams. Although they are often labeled "quiet," it is to introverts that we owe many of the great contributions to society--from van Gogh’s sunflowers to the invention of the personal computer.
Passionately argued, impressively researched, and filled with indelible stories of real people, Quiet shows how dramatically we undervalue introverts, and how much we lose in doing so. Taking the reader on a journey from Dale Carnegie’s birthplace to Harvard Business School, from a Tony Robbins seminar to an evangelical megachurch, Susan Cain charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal in the twentieth century and explores its far-reaching effects. She talks to Asian-American students who feel alienated from the brash, backslapping atmosphere of American schools. She questions the dominant values of American business culture, where forced collaboration can stand in the way of innovation, and where the leadership potential of introverts is often overlooked. And she draws on cutting-edge research in psychology and neuroscience to reveal the surprising differences between extroverts and introverts.
Perhaps most inspiring, she introduces us to successful introverts--from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the power of questions. Finally, she offers invaluable advice on everything from how to better negotiate differences in introvert-extrovert relationships to how to empower an introverted child to when it makes sense to be a "pretend extrovert."
This extraordinary book has the power to permanently change how we see introverts and, equally important, how introverts see themselves.
Far too many introverts feel the pressure to put on a mask to be extroverts, to fit in, introverts should simply be accepted.
评分Audiobook下载:百度云网盘。http://site.douban.com/196116/widget/notes/11781049/note/252247479/。再一次让我确认了自己 I am a real introvert。听得我真是觉得有种“老乡见老乡两眼泪汪汪”的感觉。这世上还有人如此深刻了解Introverts 啊!!非常全面非常深入非常有诚意的一本书。很喜欢。http://book.douban.com/review/6148870/
评分Part sociology part psychology part self-help. It makes me more comfortable with who I am, but it's still a world full of extrovert ideals, particularly in the west. I think Asian people in the west will strongly identify with the chapter about cultural differences w.r.t. introversion.
评分via Alan. As Alan said, this book crystalizes things we have been realizing on our own. I am always proud to be an introvert. Wait, what is the name of that song? Quiet is the new loud!
评分Far too many introverts feel the pressure to put on a mask to be extroverts, to fit in, introverts should simply be accepted.
Quiet 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书