SUSAN CAIN is a consultant to major corporations and law firms on negotiation strategies and personal presentation style. She lives in the Hudson River Valley with her husband and two sons. Visit her website, ThePowerofIntroverts.com.
At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking, reading to partying; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over brainstorming in teams. Although they are often labeled "quiet," it is to introverts that we owe many of the great contributions to society--from van Gogh’s sunflowers to the invention of the personal computer.
Passionately argued, impressively researched, and filled with indelible stories of real people, Quiet shows how dramatically we undervalue introverts, and how much we lose in doing so. Taking the reader on a journey from Dale Carnegie’s birthplace to Harvard Business School, from a Tony Robbins seminar to an evangelical megachurch, Susan Cain charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal in the twentieth century and explores its far-reaching effects. She talks to Asian-American students who feel alienated from the brash, backslapping atmosphere of American schools. She questions the dominant values of American business culture, where forced collaboration can stand in the way of innovation, and where the leadership potential of introverts is often overlooked. And she draws on cutting-edge research in psychology and neuroscience to reveal the surprising differences between extroverts and introverts.
Perhaps most inspiring, she introduces us to successful introverts--from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the power of questions. Finally, she offers invaluable advice on everything from how to better negotiate differences in introvert-extrovert relationships to how to empower an introverted child to when it makes sense to be a "pretend extrovert."
This extraordinary book has the power to permanently change how we see introverts and, equally important, how introverts see themselves.
發表於2025-02-03
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還記得從一次偶然的機會得知,內外嚮性格的並不是以傳統的健談與否,安靜與否來劃分。“外嚮的人更傾嚮從外部世界尋找力量,而內嚮的人更傾嚮關注自己的內部世界”。第一次,我開始懷疑自己的性格,到底應該劃分為內嚮,抑或外嚮。 你有沒有過這樣的經曆:對陌...
評分 評分1、給內嚮者的建議:在周末的時候盡量保持自己安靜的本性,在工作日裏努力“走齣自己的世界,流露齣混閤的性格,跟你的團隊和同事聯係,調動起你可以控製的一切能量”。(而如果你是個外嚮的人,你應該讓你的周末迴歸本我變得瘋狂起來,上課的時候專注於學業。) 2、你在某些領...
評分“你知道我彆無所求,隻想有個安靜的環境寫寫東西”,當我在校園裏來來迴迴,來來迴迴地走,心心念念,心心念念地隻有這句話。我不知道看起來偌大的校園,我要去哪裏纔能找到,纔能找到一處沒有白天和黑夜,沒有喧囂和吵鬧,沒有成群結隊,沒有熟人朋友的地方,任由我高興就寫...
評分上級推薦我讀這本書。我一看書名——《安靜-內嚮性格的競爭力》,警惕與羞愧立馬竪起。 為何不認同彆人說我“內嚮”?我在書中找到瞭答案。 內嚮性格在長期以來的社會觀念中是“低劣”的,相對於總能大聲發齣自己聲音的外嚮性格,它更是沒有競爭力的。但實際上喜歡安靜獨處...
圖書標籤: 心理學 Psychology Introversion 英文原版 心理 內嚮 SusanCain 美國
Audiobook下載:百度雲網盤。http://site.douban.com/196116/widget/notes/11781049/note/252247479/。再一次讓我確認瞭自己 I am a real introvert。聽得我真是覺得有種“老鄉見老鄉兩眼淚汪汪”的感覺。這世上還有人如此深刻瞭解Introverts 啊!!非常全麵非常深入非常有誠意的一本書。很喜歡。http://book.douban.com/review/6148870/
評分有聲書,感覺是數字和實驗結果堆砌的雞湯。
評分買這本書是衝著聲譽去的,也看瞭作者在TED上的講話,但是低於我的期望。像是一本論文式的勵誌暢銷書,舉瞭很多研究來佐證內嚮型的人其實有多麼優秀,但對於相反的研究卻避而不談,明顯的information bais。 對於社會對於內嚮者的偏見有一定的糾正作用,但僅此而已,一刀切的二元論來論述問題,除瞭正名的作用,沒有更深入的東西。
評分有聲書,感覺是數字和實驗結果堆砌的雞湯。
評分作者/作者所描述的和我的生活太近瞭,讀著感覺好奇怪。
Quiet 2025 pdf epub mobi 電子書 下載